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the whole plot It's about Natalie Portman having a spark of love with a married co-worker who quickly got married and had a child, Isabell, after the male co-worker quickly divorced. As a result, Isabell unfortunately passed away, and Natalie Portman felt sorry for herself every time she saw things. On the one hand, a married male colleague and his ex-wife have a child, william. The ex-wife spoke ill of Portman, blaming her for eating ice cream for children with food allergies and for not wearing a helmet when skating. Portman's depression and depression affected her. william, resulting in children not admitted to prestigious schools. So refused any contact between the child and Portman. On the other hand, Portman's father and mother divorced in the early years because of his father's infidelity, and as a result, his mother suddenly restarted dating with his father recently. Portman was angry with his mom, and dad's cheating behavior was unforgivable. Portman's husband is also tired of Portman's negative emotions. She has been obsessed with the death of the baby, and often has conflicts with William and his ex-wife. She refused to forgive her father, and emotionally accused her parents of extramarital affairs in front of everyone and her children. In addition, he had to endure his ex-wife's out-of-control emotions and yelling, and to adjust the quarrel and contradiction between William and Portman. Portman's husband began to be unable to bear all of this. The last bomb dropped by Portman caused the two to fall apart, and it turned out that the baby died because she accidentally fell asleep and suffocated the baby. The separation of the two made William sad. He learned from his father the reason for Portman's self-blame, so he begged his mother, who is a doctor, to examine Portman's thoughts. It turned out that the baby died of natural causes, not the portman. Putting down the burden of many years, Portman confessed to her husband and hoped to be reconciled. Although there were twists and turns in the middle, William's strength brought the family together again.
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The beginning of the film is depressing and sad. Seeing the heroine's emotional life is so difficult and painful, life seems to have lost hope. Try to feel the chaotic life that the heroine is facing, I think, she must be living with self-blame, remorse and pain every day. She thought that the baby's death must be God's punishment for her mistress' behavior. She regretted that she probably shouldn't have married her husband at first so that the baby wouldn't die. She regrets why she fell in love with her husband and regrets meeting her. I don't deserve happiness at all, she thought, because the actions of my third party are unforgivable. And her husband lives in pain all day long. Because of the death of the baby, his beloved wife was devastated, complaining about herself, and full of indifference to her son. The ex-wife repeatedly quarreled with her husband because of the portman's indifference to her son, and she lost control of her emotions. Such a family and love life is a terrible, messy mess.
This movie gave me a wake-up call. Sometimes, some difficulties in life are often not because of how bad the external environment is, but because of their inner torment. Inner guilt, remorse, and conscience are mixed, constantly tormenting your heart. Sometimes, the difficulties in life are just because you can't get over the hurdle in your heart. Being tortured by a mistake I once made, I feel that I don’t deserve happiness, family love and friendship, I close myself up, immerse myself in my own sadness, and never dare to forget the mistakes I once made, as if I don’t torture myself I am sorry for my conscience, I am sorry for the mistakes I have made.
In fact, from a rational point of view, torturing yourself will not make up for any fault. On the contrary, when he magnifies the tragedy of his life, he not only suffers unbearably, but also brings pain to his friends and relatives around him. This is especially the case for wives, immersed in magnified sadness, longing for her husband's care in her heart, but she looks rather indifferent on the surface, thinking that men understand that they are so indifferent because they are not angry, because they want the comfort and care of men, but men do not understand, On the contrary, the farther away he is from this resentful wife. It's not that a woman can't forgive herself, it's that she doesn't want to let go. As the movie plays, when you're stuck in a desperate situation of sadness and don't want to extricate yourself, your life will get worse and worse. It's better to face the fear and sadness in your heart, cry and talk, and let everything go away. No one will blame you for wanting to pursue a happy and happy life again, after all, aren't everyone busy living their own lives?
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