I choose to like the real you

Frank 2022-03-26 09:01:10

A love movie wrapped in a sci-fi film, let us think of the love relationship in reality when we are amazed by the plot and turning points.
To be honest, I was a little suspicious (and didn't check because I was lazy) whether the screenwriter and director were male, because the female lead felt degraded when filming. It's true that women pay more attention to emotional experience, but in the film, it seems that the real female lead is a bit silly and sweet, and she suddenly sinks into the gentle village of the fake male lead. The real male protagonist escaped the disaster very wisely, but it is also possible that the whole film was shot from the perspective of the male protagonist.
In love, each of us will have a dream lover, a lover who meets all our requirements and imaginations. In reality, the possibility of existence is relatively low, but this does not affect the pace of our vision. You can choose to pursue better, or you can choose to accept the present. It's fine, every choice is justified, but when the two appear at the same time, how to choose becomes a problem, and also when the two choices are the same person. If it were me, yes, I would have fantasies too, but what is more important is the company of each other. I like you because you are you, not because you just meet my various requirements. The feeling of a blind date is to find a suitable person with a bunch of rigid requirements. If you find it like this, no matter how good the other person is, it makes me feel that this is not love.
Over time, love, eachother, and staying together for a long time, is the love I really look forward to.

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The One I Love quotes

  • Ethan: Well, I'm not an aardvark.

    Ethan: [fake] And *I* am not a gorilla.

  • Sophie: [fake] Are you more concerned with the experiences that me and your Ethan shared or are you more concerned with what I know about the experiences that you and my Ethan shared?