entrance ceremony
reminded me of elementary, middle school, college entrance ceremonies...as if nothing was different except that people were different.
who knocks the door of the learning?
I'm every women.
what do you seek?
To wake my spirit of heart through hard work , and dedicate my life to knowledge.
Then you'll welcome. Every women who seek to follow you can enter here.
Then announce the start of the new term.
The gospel sounded, the bells rang, and the doves flew into the air.
The choice is in your hands, you can do what others expect, or you can be yourself
. Why are you not married yet?
The right to choose is in your hands, you can choose to inherit the family, or you can choose to succeed in the workplace. Feminism means women have the right to choose the life they want.
Before the 1950s and 1960s in China, it was unimaginable for a person to go to university, let alone a low-status woman. At that time, marriage was the order of the parents and the words of the matchmaker. Now, everyone born in the 1990s and 2000s is a college student, and the educational level of men and women is the same. Without the traditional constraints of the old society, we can freely choose our love or marriage partner. We have made progress, the status of women has risen, we can find a better husband, and it is understandable to find a better partner, but this is your purpose? So what's the difference between this and the ancient school of needlework, laundry and cooking, and you can marry a good husband? Learning is the technology you need to learn to find a husband? It might as well sign up for a love training class.
There are many people around me who want to live the life of a housewife, without having to go to work, without going out to squeeze the subway, without having to endure abuse from bosses, and preferably a rich one, so that you don’t have to be forced by life to eat whatever you want What, you can go wherever you want to play, and you don't need to consider selling your kidneys to buy whatever you want. To put it bluntly, you want to marry a local tyrant. In fact, it was not surprising to hear such an idea at first, because many people are like this now. Although I despise this kind of thinking, isn't this original intention similar to the Taoyuan Forest that ancient literati aspired to? Do whatever you want, do whatever you want, and do whatever you want. After all, everything you want to do now costs money, and you have to pay for water when you go to the toilet. But pinning this on an invisible and intangible local tyrant would be too lost or underestimated. Some people don't have to worry about eating, drinking, and having fun. Some people think that death is more important than Mount Tai. The pursuit of life is different. Why should everyone have the same idea? Yes, we have any reason or right to ask others to work tirelessly for the truth like you. Wouldn't it be better to be yourself? But I just have the world, lofty ambitions, and cynicism. I really can't stand this society. These people who want to marry local tyrants all day long, can they rely on themselves? You are a woman, not a nurturing seed. To put it bluntly, you have a prejudice against local tyrants. There are many kinds of local tyrants. Some are handsome, domineering and handsome, some are humorous, and black-bellied presidents (to clarify that I have seen very few Mary Suwen, so I can only think of these two types. ), someone will always be the Mary Sue heroine, but wake up, wake up! Girl, stop indulging in Korean dramas.
Speaking of which, I actually got myself a little confused. After all, I still have to understand the modern women's concept of marriage.
What is the concept of marriage of ancient women? Three from six virtues? Since he was a child, he started to bind his feet and set his life goal as a husband and a son.
In modern times, due to the Western concept of equality and the improvement of the level of learning and culture, she began to pursue independent choice, freedom of marriage, and the pursuit of true love, but at the same time she may have other goals in life, such as overthrowing Japanese imperialism.
In modern times, people's thoughts are the same as the amount of complicated information on the Internet. Are they really pursuing love and marriage? This is an era full of material desires and bubbles. When we are together because of love, is it to reduce the pressure of life, is it to repay the loan together, or is it because of parental oppression? Society is complicated, and marriage is also complicated. There are many people who haven't been in love after graduating from college, let them talk about marriage?
Unlike the West, which encourages precocious puberty, we are a country that prohibits puppy love, and even prohibits the success of puppy love in film and television. Look at the love youth films in movies now, who understands what love is? The director's own love is a mess. In those days of leading life, when boys and girls held small hands on campus, they would put up big-character posters, so when we were young, hehe... I heard that a girl in elementary school had kissed herself, and there was a kind of girl who lived a promiscuous life and became a bitch sooner or later. thought of. The kind of indomitable person who thinks highly of himself will never find a boyfriend, because she will feel that it is an insult to her high IQ, so there are many talents with high IQ and low EQ, in fact, it is not a low EQ, It's just love experience. Some people with high EQ may be those who have children in kindergarten when you were in college, and those with high IQ may eventually become older leftover girls. This is similar to the situation in the movie, and what we are facing now is what the United States experienced at that time. Whether to choose marriage or choose a career, good question!
If you are ambitious, you need to have both.
Many people call modern marriage an equivalent exchange. Some people propose marriage economics. They believe that marriage is a process of finding a target market, examining the needs of both parties, agreeing to the terms of commodity exchange, and signing the exchange of instrumental music. It is realized in order to satisfy nature and reduce transaction costs. A combined form of utility maximization, this is a cold way of thinking, maybe the proposer's marriage is not happy, who knows? After all, not many can find true love. Sometimes I sigh that it is really difficult to simply fall in love. Young people nowadays are all thinking about their house, car, household registration, etc., so it is not that marriage is cold, it is the reality.
The more you think about it, the more difficult it is to get married Dogs follow dogs, after all, everyone was poor at that time. Now the gap between the rich and the poor is widening, prices and housing prices are staggering, people's living security is low, and women will add a lot of conditions for the sake of safety. This is also the reason why many people want to marry local tyrants.
Moreover, modern people pursue diversification, such as becoming a CEO and reaching the pinnacle of life, such as countless luxury goods and cosmetics, such as traveling around the world, such as world peace, and contributing to human development, etc. Many people are also thinking about whether marriage is a dispensable thing? Why add a burden when I can secure my life? Can love be eaten?
In modern times, uncertain factors such as divorce, extramarital affairs, and in-laws and daughters-in-law make women extra careful when considering marriage. Chinese women are more conservative, and because they do not want to waste time and cost, modern marriages are so cautious and difficult to move forward.
Why do we need marriage? Have a cute baby? Succession? love? bread? Escape from work stress?
There is such a mother in many family TV dramas. Because of marriage, she gave up her career and became a full-time mother. She takes care of her children every day. When she meets her former colleague again, she finds that she has now been promoted. At the same time, her colleague He also thanked her for leaving and lamented that he now has lovers in different places. At this time, you will think about the quarrel with your husband, the conflict with your children, etc. What is your mood at this time? No one can say which is better, but it's your choice.
Modern people's concept of love is distorted, or it can be said to be diversified. When people pursue themselves, they are always bound by many traditional ideas. For example, they must have a house, which is similar to the ancient people's emphasis on land. It is no wonder that we are a big agricultural country. The land is the foundation for people to live and live. In modern times, it has another symbol of dignity and dignity. It is all caused by the hypocrisy of human beings. The sense of lack and eagerness to prove themselves, because China's rush for money and power has been there since ancient times. In the West, one's achievement is not about money and power. Different ethnic groups have different beliefs and different pursuits. Lamenting is still a matter of belief.
When you have a choice, it will actually become more painful. There are many uncertain factors in the future, and no one can guarantee what will happen. It all depends on your own creation. The most important thing to do at this time is to recognize yourself.
In fact, when we are always discussing women's rights, women's rights are actually low. Only when we no longer have a unique view of women in our words can men and women be the most equal, and women are the most free.
A wanderer without purpose is a cowardly
Mona Lisa, we will never forget you
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