How to Be Single (1)

It was a Friday night, and after eating at IKEA, I slowly waited for the subway from the art center. After a week of work, I am really tired, physically and mentally. I still remember that one of the questions in the okcupid profile question was on a typical Friday night, I am.....my answer was I am TIRED. Really, I don't know how people in movies and TV shows are able to go out on workday nights, eat, go to bars, drink, and go to work the next day in good spirits. (Maybe, the kidney is good?) Anyway, last Friday, when I got home, it was almost nine o’clock in the evening, I didn’t know what to do; I went to bed, too early; I exercised, I was lazy; I was lying in bed and playing with my mobile phone , which is an insult to TGIF! ! ! I guess because I was so clueless at that time, I want to know how to be single and I got to watch that film.

This is probably the best love and celibacy movie I've seen this year because I see myself in it. I think I'm a lot like Lucy, I spend a lot of time on the online dating app every day. I have registered with Okcupid, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, Match, SeekingArrangement, and Momo. However, only okcupid is commonly used. But in June of this year, I accidentally deleted the okcupid account permanently, and I have cleaned it for a month now, which is a gratifying thing. For me, this online dating site has an addictive magic that I can't quit, I know it's not good for me, I uninstalled it, but reinstalled it again and again. I'm quite a superficial person, and this conclusion is deduced from the fact that when I see the people I've marked with red hearts, they basically look good, but most of them don't do anything serious. When browsing the web, first look at the face. After reading the face, look at the profile. If the profile is also liked, then I will look at the questions he answers. If I like all three, I will start to obsess about this boy. , but will take no action other than frequent visits to the home page. If he doesn't act after I visit his page frequently, I move on to the next profile. This gave me the illusion that I could get to know a person through photos, profiles, and questions, connect with him, build a ramport, and have conversations beyond small talk. But these are all illusions, made by myself. In the two and a half years of using okcupid, I have only gone out to meet three people, two of which I don't like, and the other who wants to be a friend, but these are not the original intentions of my sign up. So to use a very common saying, I forgot my original intention. When I saw that Lucy was dealing with one face after another, no, on a date, pretend to be someone else, very, very, very, very, very desperate to find a boyfriend, but couldn't find a boyfriend and could only refresh the page in the bar over and over again, I watched a A girl who is as troubled as I share.

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