happiness doesn't last long

Jaylen 2022-03-25 09:01:18

This is a life-threatening movie, and even worse, I actually saw a director's cut. A romantic film of more than two hours, with a slower pace, Hai Ge can't stand this kind of literary film, and it's just me, who is slow to respond, enjoying himself.

The story goes like this, a short summary: The rich girl Xiuzhen fell in love with the poor boy carpenter Zhezhu, although there was opposition from the family, but the two eventually became married. The optimistic Soo-jin changed the gloomy Cheol-soo and helped him repair his family relationship. Cheol-soo's career was on the right track. Just as he was preparing to escape from his poor past life with the help of his father-in-law, Soo-jin fell ill and had to be Alzheimer's disease, commonly known as "senile dementia".

After Cheol-soo found out that Soo-jin was sick, the scene of the two of them at the baseball stadium, damn, did you cry? Xiuzhen said: Life will not always be happy. You are so naive, life is cruel.

These words were said by Chul-soo when they first met. At that time, Zhezhu was an abandoned child who had experienced vicissitudes of life. The girl's mother gave birth to him and abandoned him. He grew up with the old master. In addition to being able to eat enough, he also suffered from negative mental blows. How can such a child be happy? ? So, he saves money, he is reticent, he has a secret drawer to hide his unbearable past, but he still loves and wants to love. It's just that if Xiuzhen didn't come out of the first part, he could only silently carve a wooden sculpture of a girl, and he liked it from a distance. Unequal love is like this. The high one must lean down and the low one must come down. Only in this way can some form of coordination be achieved. For example, at the very beginning, it was obviously a concubine relationship, and most of our Asian cultural atmosphere is that men chase women, but Xiuzhen dressed up beautifully to flirt with men, and also brought a bunch of girls to make human bodies background. Zheng Yusheng: How is the business? I thought he was making fun of Son Ye-jin as a street girl, but Soo-jin doesn't care at all. Going to Zhezhu's house, Zhezhu is not allowed to touch or touch, and put it on a girl who is just in love. It is a good time to be pampered and arrogant. How can he be as good-tempered as her. In this way, the rich girl cut her clothes by hand, waited under the sun for the poor boy to finish the exam and walk out of the exam room, and so on, that moved the stinky and tough Cheol-soo.

So here comes the question, Cheol-soo says, happiness won't last long.

In film and television dramas, of course, happiness will not last long. If it is long, there will be no drama, although in real life, we all hope that happiness is a permanent state.

When the poor boy counterattacked and successfully married Bai Fumei, his career was on the right track. Only then did we know that Zhezhu actually saved a lot of money. In terms of assets, he was not a poor boy, but he was really poor since he was a child. . At this time, the original balance between the two was broken, and Xiuzhen didn't have to lean down to meet Zhezhu, it was time for Zhezhu to repay Xiuzhen.

It's very similar to the movie "Blue Life and Death", which was popular all over the country when I was a child, and let the Chinese people know what "Korean Wave" is for the first time. When all the obstacles are not there, the heroine will inevitably suffer from a terminal illness that will die. Xiuzhen suffers from a disease in which people die before they die, and it is Alzheimer's disease.

As the doctor said, the human brain is amazing. Memorized things can also be forgotten, memories can even be partially erased, and time becomes irrelevant. What touched me the most was that when Xiuzhen fainted for the second time and walked out, such a beautiful girl lost her control when she said this. Zhezhu ran over and carried her into the bathroom. At this time, Xiuzhen no longer knew what shame was, but Zhezhu knew her decency. When everyone treats her as a patient and understands her, he treats her as she used to be and maintains the decency for her when she is sober. Cheol-soo takes off his shirt to clean up for Soo-jin - well, the second burst of tears.

After remembering who this man was, Soo Jin decided to leave him. Before finding Xiuzhen again, in fact, strictly speaking, Zhezhu didn't make much effort. The re-encounter and restart that I envisioned at the beginning did not appear. Yes, how long can people's patience be spent? How much love can it not be struck by forgetting again and again?

At this time, I thought of raising hamsters. Why do people like to keep dogs or cats but don’t like small animals like hamsters. If we want to talk about cuteness, hamsters are also cute and lost. A big reason is because they will never be Will recognize you, will not interact with you and will not respond to your love. From a deep psychological point of view, it is a selfish behavior for humans to keep pets. Emotional rewards that cannot be obtained from the same kind of human beings are obtained from pets, which is a kind of emotional acquisition method of "returning". Well, it's just a movie, so it's beautiful from the beginning to the end, and it's beautiful to forget everything, because even if the memory is erased, you can still go to a place called "heaven" where everyone is so friendly, though You don't know them.

Both Cheol-soo and Soo-jin said, You are too naive and life is cruel.

Maybe you don't think of those old people who have erasers in their minds. The high incidence of this disease is the old people. Once they get sick, it's not good at all. I tried my best not to think about it, and let everything stop on the empty road. Soo Jin and Cheol Soo drove the converted convertible, ah, everything is so beautiful.

It may not matter what it is leading you to think.

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A Moment to Remember quotes

  • Cheol-su: [subtitles] If you forget everything, I'll pop up out of nowhere. Like now. And I'll hit on you. You won't be able to turn me down. We'll start anew every day. Like permanent dating. Awesome, isn't it?

  • Cheol-su: [subtitles] When a memory is gone, so is the soul, they say.