"Female Addict" has such a shocking name. Since its birth, there have been many eye-catching gimmicks. The mad director Feng Tier known as the "Danish lunatic", a large number of real naked sex organs, anti-moral and anti-ethical sexual The plot of openness...Although this movie seriously discusses many grand propositions, watching the whole movie really reminds me that the young joe took his father's hand and looked up at the lush foliage of the ash tree. The appearance of-that is also about the initial appearance of "love". Putting aside the controversial cloaks of feminism, the original sin of sexual instinct, and anti-Christian views, the story to be told in the movie "Female Addict" is actually still inseparable from the word "love". 1. Beautiful Father In "Female Addict", father is undoubtedly the only pure land in Joe's chaotic world, and the only beautiful image in Joe's eyes. Yes, "beautiful". Joe hates feminine men, but uses "beautiful" to describe his father. His mother is just a "cold and ruthless" bitch in Joe's mouth. That's because the father assumed the image of father and mother at the same time in the growth of joe, and he was also the only incarnation of "love", and "love" itself is gender-neutral. In the memory of the first chapter of the film, Joe’s mother blamed Joe for staying in the toilet for too long, but Joe’s father opposed her censure; Joe’s father was cooking while wearing an apron, but Joe’s mother was playing poker solitaire boringly. -Contrary to the image of a cold and serious father in the patriarchal society, Joe's father showed more tenderness in this family. Therefore, joe clearly said "I love my father" from the beginning, which is also a sentence for the whole film. In addition to assuming the dual image of father and mother, Joe's father is the only person in this family who has not given up Joe. Joe has been aware of her "evil" since she was two years old, and her over-developed sexual desire made her eager to understand her body. Joe peeked at his father's medical anatomy book, found a chapter about the vagina in it, and studied it with relish. In fact, his father had already stood by the door and saw all her actions. As a doctor, he found Joe's anomaly, but he didn't break Joe, nor scolded Joe. He is more willing to take her to understand the common sense of nature, tell her spring, summer, autumn and winter and the prosperity and decline of trees. He longed for joe to understand common sense and return to common sense. However, more importantly, he loved joe. He hoped that joe would understand that everything in this world is different, and the soul that bears the weight of the flesh will be distorted into different appearances. But this is the real world, the real soul, this is not sin, it's just truth. Although the young joe did not understand his father’s words, joe, who was caught in chaotic sexual relations as an adult, was still able to find peace from the leaf pamphlets his father took her to collect. This is a gift of love from his father, and it is also her. The only refuge in the world. What is particularly moving is that before dying, her father still called her "my beautiful little daughter", and Joe also found ash twigs in the park to bring his father the last peace. For the father, no matter how unique his soul is, whether it grows normally or is distorted, he will always be a beautiful child in his eyes; and in his eyes, even if all the leaves of life are lost, the soul of his father Still like the branches of an ash tree, generous, solid, beauty. 2. The lonely father Joe's father is very lonely. Although he has a beautiful wife, a lovely daughter, and a happy middle-class family, all of this is an illusion. In Joe’s memories, her father always took her for a walk in the forest. When he became an adult, when he felt lonely and could not be resolved by sex, he also walked into the forest again and again, just like his father did-so to speak. , Joe copied his father’s behavior pattern, and joe’s behavior pattern reflected his father’s loneliness. Joe’s father’s greatest sense of loneliness comes from the love he has been longing for all his life, that is, he has never been loved by his wife in his life. "Female Addict" has very few portrayals of Joe's mother, but even in this rare scene, it is not difficult to see that she does not love Joe's father. How could a wife who had never visited her husband before he died in the hospital, could love her husband? The explanation given by joe’s father is: "We have already said goodbye at home." Joe’s mother is called katherine, and there is a very coincidental image here. The heroine of Wuthering Heights is also called katherine, selfish, selfish, and ruthless. , Although he married the noble son Linton but never loved Linton, but Linton loved Katherine to the death. Joe's father loved Katherine all his life. When joe said that his mother was a bitch, he repeatedly defended her: "No, no, you don't understand her." During an episode of delirium, he pierced his heart and called her name "K"; until he died. Never hated her, saying goodbye to her at home is enough. But he died so lonely, without the company of relatives and friends, without the visit of his wife, only the doctor who calmly injected the stabilizer, the caregiver who numbed his excrement, and the daughter who watched his incontinence. Joe undoubtedly understands this loneliness. Facing the climax of his father's body, it seemed absurd, but in reality it was sad-the only person in the world who understood her died, and the climax became a speechless cry. 3. Family relationship Joe has been aware of her sexual desire since she was 2 years old. She believes this is the original sin. What is more worthy of inquiry is why the 2-year-old is so strongly aware of the existence of sexual desire. According to Freud (and inevitably speaking of Freud), a 2-year-old child is in the anal period. Children at this stage desire the right to control their own defecation, but the mother who is always harsh is obviously not given this right to her. When joe was playing with his female partner in the toilet, joe's mother knocked on the door to let her come out quickly, and joe hurriedly cleaned up the "playground" and deliberately made the toilet emit water, which shows that this is not the mother's first Once controlling Joe's "right to defecation", his father's words "leave her alone" also contrasted this kind of control. The strict mother, the tolerant father, and the indifferent relationship between the parents turned Joe’s desire for love into a desire for sex, and turned it into a weapon against love—this is actually an accusation against the marriage of the parents in name only. . Joe's friend said to Joe in the secret club that "love is the greatest secret weapon of sex", and Joe pulls away and expresses his disdain. There is a sexual relationship between joe's parents, but there is no love, so joe no longer believes in love. A seemingly complete family, without love, is just an empty shell; a seemingly passionate sexual relationship, without love, is nothing but emptiness. As an adult, Joe calmly said: "This is a misunderstanding, and I don't want to hurt you" when confronted by Uma Thurman's original partner. This sentence is sincere but mean. A marriage without love has long existed in name. The father abandoned the family and derailed. The original partner also brought three children to back. She mocked the parents who took the name of love but didn't care about their children. 4. With Jerome, there is no doubt that Joe is in love with Jerome. Why should I choose jerome at the age of 15? Because his hands are beautiful? This is just an excuse. The real reason is that Jerome is her first love, the first time she fell in love. But this point, Joe did not admit it until a long time later. Jerome didn't realize this. He thought that joe's finding him was just a popular rebellious game at the time, and he was a young man with a big heart. He used a 3+5 method to stylistically end Joe's virgin career. 3+5 is a perfect Fibonacci sequence, but joe does not feel perfect, because in Jerome's 3+5, she does not feel the existence of love. Her first attempt to find love failed, which frustrated her more than Jerome's second shot. Just as the girl who led joe to play sex games said, why do you have to sleep with the same boy three times, because this has already reached a relationship, not only a sexual relationship, but also a love relationship. The companion who was crazy and sultry on the train back then is back on track, but Joe has since gone forever. She said, "My only sin is to capture more colors in the sunset light." Any word has two meanings, signifier and signifier, so what does she really want to capture? I think it's probably the elusive love before falling into the darkness. 5. Back to his father joe's father died, but Jerome returned to joe's side. In "Female Addicts 2", they formed a family, but things did not go for the better, but got worse. Just as the sequel to "Titanic" is "Road to Revolution", the moment when it is truly released is the moment when it truly ends. Jerome tolerates Joe's sex addiction, but in essence it is still like "you don't understand" as Joe said to the professor at the beginning. Jerome has never really understood Joe's fierce, weird, twisted but real soul. Of course, it is too difficult to understand such a soul. Joe is a dead tree on the wasteland. When his father died, her leaves also fell off, and the real soul was exposed. She couldn't feel the sexual pleasure from Jerome, so she frantically looked for other men. Is it because of too much experience that you lose your sexual pleasure? The reason is that the death of her father caused her to lose her only love, and the essence of love is "understanding." "Understanding" is a kind of empathy. If joe's parents can understand each other, love will also occur; if joe's mother can understand joe, love will also occur; if jerome can understand joe, love will also occur... But throughout the film, even though Joe said so much to the professor, the professor didn't understand Joe, and instead tried to rape her. Joe picked up the gun and killed the professor. Is she rebelling against patriarchy? Perhaps what she resisted was "not understanding" itself. When I was a child, I watched "Wuthering Heights" over and over again, and felt that the love between katherine and heathcliff was "love", which went with life and death; when I grew up, I saw that Linton's love is "love" and embraces all . Katherine always said that she and heathcliff have the same soul, but they cannot understand each other; Linton and Katherine are the opposite, but he tolerates her, understands her, and raises their children. I am afraid that this kind of "love" has already surpassed love itself. Joe's father, a person who has never received love, takes care of Joe as much as possible, understands Joe, and shelters her like an ash tree. How many parent-child relationships in the world cannot be so. In "Interstellar", Anne Hathaway said a very vulgar line, to the effect that "love" is a transcendent existence, guiding us to make choices in the universe. So, what does "love" itself look like? Back to the beginning of "Female Addict", Joe's father pointed to the ash tree and said to joe that the branches of the ash tree in winter would grow black fingers. It looks like the ash tree can be distinguished. This story sounds very unscientific, but Joe has been remembering for a long time, until his father died, he coquettishly asked his father to tell her the story of the ash tree. Therefore, love should be, after peeling off all the shells, one soul has a higher understanding of another soul, even if they are completely different. Even if no soul can understand oneself, then one must understand oneself, because souls are inherently different. Regarding the method of finding the ash tree, the father taught joe the method of finding love. If joe exists in reality, I hope they can use this method to get out of the endless Fibo number sequence. (This article is prohibited from reprinting)
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