Sex addict (sex addicts) want the satisfaction of sex hunger and thirst in the world.
The two are actually completely different. The people of nymphomaniac and sex addict don't get along well. I was once said by a sex addict man: "You don’t actually like sex at all. What you like is the experience others bring to you. What I want is pure sex, what I want is an ordinary beautiful woman. , So I'm not attracted to you at all." People in
Nymphomaniac are naturally rebellious, and the more "wrong" things are, the more they feel they have to do it, because they don't like/cannot stand a "right" life like others. They feel that the "wrong" thing is what they need to do, and if they dare not do it, they are cowardly and need to be overcome. For example, Joe accepts a challenge from a good friend to take a bag of candies as a bet. In fact, Joe does not enjoy the actual challenge process at all. She just feels that this thing is too "wrong", too wrong to not do it, too wrong. Need to agree without hesitation!
When encountering situations that are contrary to morals and common sense, the people of Nymphomaniac feel that it is their mission to experience various edge situations, and they are eager to expand their perception boundaries, such as eager to experience the process of repelling pain to enjoyment; such as pushing themselves into a cold For example, spontaneously trying to experience indecent experience; and for example, having sex at the most inopportune time or place without remembering the consequences.
Love is something that the people of Nymphomaniac hate. It disrupts the life of clear rules (the rules are: don’t say no to any new experience, and treat each partner equally, maintain a sense of respect with distance), let jealousy Nymphomaniac’s road trip of "wrong" that was overwhelmed by thorns and thorns is no longer authentic, making Nymphomaniac from a little devil into an ordinary person, overestimating his own stability/pure benignity and starting to try to live an ordinary life, but this The damage that ordinary people take for granted and the only correct stable life to Nymphomaniac is huge. This kind of correct life recognized by society is incompatible with the nature of the Nymphomaniac, and if enforced, it will cause devastating harm to them and their partners.
In fact, the focus of Nymphomaniac is not on sex, but "anti" or "wrong". There are many ways to think about "anti" or "wrong". Then why did Nymphomaniac choose to use sex as the starting point, that is, to implement anti-conventional sex? ? In human society, even in modern society, the restrictions on women’s morality and "style" are particularly strong. Girls have been taught proper and even excessively ascetic sexual concepts from birth. In life, the rebellion against sexual restraint is almost the biggest rebellion she can make. Once a girl begins to subvert the social restrictions on her, she can subvert the concept of "correct life" as a whole. Make a small choice, and the whole world will stand on your opposite side, and you will become a lonely hero. This will give the girl what a power, no wonder it is addictive.
Nymphomaniac are dissatisfied with the mediocrity of "correct" life. They are eager to explore a fantasy territory. They challenge all that they have never experienced, unacceptable, and contrary to common sense. This is what they have to do. For them, saying "no" to the experience of fear means failure.
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