Kindness may not be rewarded - how to face you, this unfair world

Johnnie 2022-10-13 06:06:16

At the end of this season, Gemma finally gave up her kindness and fantasy, and was bent on revenge. As she wished, she let the scumbag husband go out of the house and kept her dignity, career, son, and property. But her scars are tragic—she was the one who saw her beloved husband and the mistress being intimate and heartbroken; it was she who was slapped by the angry mistress; she was the one who provoked domestic violence by her ex-husband in order to win the sentence, and her face was covered in blood. It was her; even when she was restrained, her fingernails dig deep into the flesh, and it was her who left her hands full of scars. As the betrayed party, why is it the one who sheds blood and tears the most?

Look at her scumbag ex-husband and mistress again. Bathing in true love is completely relaxed and stress-free. The scumbag thinks that it is right for him to cheat for the sake of true love, and Xiaosan feels that all marriages in front of true love can be ignored. So the two finally got married and went to London to live their own little days. Before leaving, they found out with kindness and said goodbye to Gemma respectively. Although the two of them are financially poor, at least the junior has a local tyrant father. From her account, her parents are happy for them to live in London. It seems that they feel sorry for their daughter after all. In the future, the life of the mistress and the scumbag will not be too bad even if they rely on the help of their parents. And their children are about to be born, and a new family is about to start. As the party who betrayed the marriage and hurt others, why can he get a good ending?

As for the second season, will the scumbag repeat his habit. As bystanders eager to assert "ethics and morals", we subconsciously hope that the scumbag will cheat again, so that Xiaosan can also taste the feeling of Gemma's injury back then. But in all fairness, the possibility of cheating again is really unlikely. The scumbag experienced this divorce and ransack, went out of the house, lost his career and his son. This lesson is too painful. Besides, he is now over middle-aged, and he used to rely on Gemma to make money to support him, so he can keep warm and think of lust in his hometown. Now he has nothing in the strange London, and even if he repeats his old habits, he has to have money. What's more, this time his wife is young and beautiful, and she still admires him wholeheartedly. He is busy making money to support his family, and behind him there is a powerful old man who knows his details. I feel like he could really become a reliable husband in season 2.

This is also the most ironic place - Gemma's 14-year marriage, which has worked so hard, ended in divorce with physical and psychological scars. After the storm, it was the ex-husband and the mistress who left holding hands.

Is this the result of kindness, trust and hard work? But why is the ending so unfair? Good is not rewarded, so what went wrong?
Is it Gemma's fault? Is her belief wrong? Is it her fault that she is too black and white, can't tolerate deception, and is too kind?

In this society where the strong eat the weak, I believe that if a kind person fights against an unscrupulous person, he is doomed to be hurt.

A kind-hearted and hard-working idealist like Gemma came together with such a scumbag husband. From the very beginning of their marriage, it was doomed to be a tragedy. No matter how smart or forgiving Emma is, she can be hurt. The reason is that her husband is scumbag, and she is not scumbag. She can't hurt her husband, and her husband can hurt her. The bottom line is that the lower limits of the two people's morals do not match.

A safe and stable marriage, in addition to what everyone calls a match, I think the more important point is whether the integrity of both parties in the marriage matches. It's a pity that Gemma, who was 23 years old, was too confident and naive. When she didn't see her lover's true colors clearly, she decided to entrust her for life. Fourteen years at a time.

And the scumbag and the little three are more compatible. The reason is that the two have very similar outlooks on ethics. They are both selfish, lacking conscience, and lacking love. This can be seen in the similar reactions of the two after Gemma was raped. After his husband accidentally beat his wife, he did not check her life, did not call an ambulance, did not call a police car, but sat on the side in a decadent manner. What he worried about at that time was probably not the life and death of his wife, but the court's imminent judgment on his divorce - but his own future.
As for Xiaosan, when she came to the scene of domestic violence and saw Gemma lying motionless in a pool of blood, not knowing whether she was alive or dead, her first reaction was to stretch out her hand to comfort the scumbag man, and asked her if she was all right, and then went with the scumbag man. left. From this, it can be seen how numb and selfish the hearts of these two people are, so that they can confidently hurt others repeatedly without knowing it.
If it were Gemma, no matter what the position was, it must be the most important thing to save people. And this is the difference between Gemma and them, this is the difference between conscience and the bottom line of life!

After all, Gemma and her husband are not from the same world. She totally deserves a better lover.

Fortunately, when she saw the face of the person beside the pillow, she decided to break it. Otherwise, grievance with such a scumbag is just a waste of her own life. I believe that in the story of the second season, she will live a smart and confident life and find the person who really deserves her.

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