Later, grandma taught them how to do housework. In order to make them a qualified housewife in the future, she put away everything related to trend and rebellion, and made them large gray robes. When they stood next to grandma in robes together, there was no smile and no vitality. The broad and dark colors covered their bodies, they looked tired and old-fashioned, and it was too far from the appearance of youthful vitality in every body at the beginning. I was shocked and made up my mind to wear brightly colored and youthful clothes even when I was in a bad mood and the financial situation was bad, because the contrast was too obvious. Not only the reason for the clothes, but also the mentality of the sisters.
Because the neighbor's wife and grandma said they had done something shameful, grandma locked everyone at home and arranged their marriage. Among the five sisters, apart from the heroine and the fourth sister who escaped in the end, the eldest sister, the second sister, and the third sister were arranged for marriage. The second sister was fortunate enough to marry the person she liked. She was taken by the husband's parents for an examination. The third sister was found dead. She was considered the "happy" second sister among the sisters. The reason for her "happiness" was that she was proposed and married by a man she liked, so as to avoid meeting people she didn't know. Live a life of husband and wife, have children, and live life, but such a "happy" life is also dependent on men's redemption. The five sisters in the village are all forced to marry, and live a "disciplined" step-by-step life. The second sister's The difference is that because it is the person she likes, she subjectively accepts or looks forward to the reality of marriage. But from another point of view, she is no different from the other sisters who were forced to marry. During the time of the movie, in that village, no one can get rid of the forced marriage by reading books or working hard on their own. destiny. This is the sad part of the movie. But someone like the heroine who worked so hard for her freedom broke free. She and her fourth sister arrived in Istanbul and found a teacher. The teacher would help the heroine. The heroine may study, work, master her own freedom, and eventually become a person who changes her destiny through reading and work. There is also something that worries me a little. After they found the teacher, they knocked on the door. It was the teacher's husband who opened the door, an ordinary-looking man. If he is the same as the heroine's uncle, can the teacher still help the heroine? That's where the movie doesn't make it clear.
When the heroine's grandmother was about to arrange the marriage of the fourth sister, she said something like that, saying that she didn't know her husband when she got married, but as the years passed, she fell in love with him deeply, and told the two Sisters, you are still young and will fall in love after marriage. This sentence is really sad. Women in the context of grandmothers...have to get married, have no personal freedom and independent choice, and also have no life of their own. After getting married, I also manage housework, be a cow and a horse. Under such circumstances, I "fall in love" because of my self-deception or my husband's non-violence. In this kind of life, I have no freedom in my life, it is all accessories. what. So sorry for these women.
When the heroine and the fourth sister ran away, I hesitated for a moment. I was thinking about whether I should run away. I have a soft and gentle personality. I think about things before and after. Auntie had protected them when they faced their uncles. After thinking about it, they would understand. Grandma and auntie also became a part of the big net that bound them. Although grandma loved them and protected them, if they didn't leave, they wouldn't. There is absolutely no way out if you are completely away from the net of bondage, so sometimes you can't look ahead. Say this to myself. When I encounter choices about life and freedom in the future, I will be as decisive and brave as the heroine.
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