"I have begun to miss you": Don't forget to sell a cute when you are desperate

Newell 2022-10-21 15:49:07




The last movie that caught my eye because of its name was "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much". This name is really wonderful. I wonder, after seeing this name, which girl would not immediately think of the "him" who has hurt you and made you feel amorous countless times?

So I clicked in and read it on the spot, and I also realized some cruel truths that friends would not tell us in real life - he is looking for you but not dating you, he is your friend but not dating you, it is not because He is busy, he is shy, there is no ambiguous message in the world. It's just that he doesn't like you that much.

The same is true for this "I Have Started Missing You". Described in English grammar, the name is too present perfect. The present perfect tense expresses the effect or result of an action that occurred in the past on the present, and expresses that the action or state of the past continues to the present. I've started to miss you, because you were so important in my life in the past, so no matter where you are, I'm thinking of you, always thinking of you.

After reading the introduction, I learned that the content is actually based on the friendship between the two girls. Until this moment, when I think back to the title of the film, the role of "you" is much clearer, best friend. Hey, it's another theme that girls can't resist.

I watched it on station B, and at the beginning of the movie, I saw countless barrages floating in front of my eyes. Similar to "tear eyes", "cry blind", "XX, I love you", "friendship lasts forever" and so on. Then I turned off the barrage and brought a bag of paper over.

Jess and Milly have been good friends since middle school, and they have witnessed countless firsts for each other. The first time to learn swearing, the first time to kiss a boy, the first time to go to a nightclub, the first time to have sex with a stranger, until they got married and had children. Regardless of joy or sorrow, they have always been by each other's side, sharing blessings and sorrows.

Originally, the friendship of most people should be like the above, plain but hard to remember. It's a pity that the director wanted to be a demon. After he explained all the above-mentioned plots perfectly, the plot took a turn for the worse, and Milly suddenly suffered from cancer.

I probably started acting at this time, and the film only lasted about ten minutes. The next hour and a half was all about Drew Barrymore's Yan and Toni Collette's acting.

Maybe it has something to do with my personal prejudice. I really hate the appearance of cancer in movies or TV dramas, especially I don't think it will be a warming agent for girlfriends. Girls' friendship is very simple.

——In "Your shoes are so beautiful", "I hate that girl too", "God, someone confessed to me last night", "I know that Jianghan Road has a very delicious cheese ribs. ”, you suddenly sublimated a revolutionary feeling of “if I were a boy, I must marry her” to the girl next to you who was holding your hand tightly and smiling happily, which we call girlfriend love for short.

Yesterday, I happened to see Leisure Lu posted a Weibo, and I quite like it: if there is love, there is, and if there is no love, there is no, basically it depends on luck. In my opinion, whether you have money or not, no matter how hard you work, in the end it is luck. If there is anything, sincere dedication can always get the same warm return, I think it is friendship. Being honest and sincere to your friends will always bring you a warm blood from your friends. And the best part about this whole thing is that you don't really think about anything in return when you give it in the first place.

You don't necessarily have to be at all the nodes in her life. In contrast, I think "Sunshine Sisters" will resonate more with people, after all, separation is the normal state of life.

When Jess gave birth, her husband was actually dispatched on a business trip for more than half a year. In the end, Milly, who was gradually exhausted, deliberately ran out of the hospital bed and rushed to her side. And in this case, Jess's husband was not dumped, and after Milly's death, they were still in love as usual.

Before Milly died, it was Jess who stayed by the bed. After Milly played the revolving lantern in her mind, she suddenly opened her eyes and called Jess to her side, then the two made the gesture they loved most when they were young, and then Milly closed her eyes. At this moment, Milly's husband rushed in, hugged her all the time, and kept saying, I really love you very much.

In fact, the most distressed thing in the whole film is Milly's husband. He is the one who loves Milly the most. He gave up his playboy character for her. He didn't change his love for her at all after she got sick. He forgave her after knowing that she had cheated on her. In the end, she left without saying a word There was no time to speak to her.

I think the director is too deliberately emphasizing the meticulous companionship of Jess and Milly to each other, and it seems unreal. But I know that many people were still moved, but unfortunately my paper was not used until the last moment.

A thousand spectators and a thousand Hamlets. Fortunately, in this film, I saw another spirit I particularly liked from jess and milly, called optimism. Just like watching "The Life of the Disgusted Matsuko" back then, Matsuko would make a playful face to the camera whenever she was in the most pain. How many people have been moved by that unyielding grimace.

As I said before, I don't like watching dramas like cancer that require life and death. Because I really can't stand in a movie, all the actors have a gloomy face, crying and crying throughout the performance.

But this one is different, jess and milly usually take it as a joke when they are sad.

Milly shaved her hair for treatment, and Jess touched her bald head and said, "Ah, it feels so good".

Milly is usually used to asking her husband to help her carry the bag. When she was getting an injection, she held a hanging bottle and handed it to her husband and said, "Can you help me get the bag?"

Jess and Milly had been separated for a while, and when they saw Milly again, she had already reached the terminal stage of cancer. Jess said, "Thank you for letting me come back to witness this good show."

jess and milly were sitting on the lawn chatting. Milly said: "I even wish there was a heaven, do you think they will accept me?" Jess replied: "Unless they lower the standard of membership."

I admire and envy those who are still in the mood to go when they are suffering. joking person. This is also the reason why I followed "Descendants of the Sun" some time ago. A good man like Yoo Shi-jin who can make fun of a woman he loves to relax her mind before the hail of bullets, how could someone not love him.

I often imagine that when I was lying in the hospital with transparent tubes all over my body, my little grandson ran in and looked at me and said with a smile, "Grandma, you look like the kind of energy input in the movie" Liquid superhero.

I don't want him to cry and cry beside my bed, shaking my hand and saying you don't leave, I will do my homework obediently.

The former makes people die happily, while the latter makes people leave with apology and regret. It is not difficult to understand why the elders always ordered us not to have tears on our faces when they took us to the hospital.

Talk a little closer. Some time ago, I took the postgraduate entrance examination, but I didn't have time to finish the English essay. Immediately after the test, I called my good friend and English personal tutor Xiao Hu, and when I heard her voice, I began to cry: "Mom's English composition is not finished, I will definitely not pass the school line, and I don't want to take the test. Whoa whoa whoa." Xiaohu was stunned for a second and said, "Are you crying while walking on the road? Don't pretend to force Fei Yatian, do you want to attract the handsome guys from Wu Da to stop for you on the way? But I never told After you, you look really ugly when you cry." I was

so frightened that I immediately woke up and forcibly cut off the cry. Then she began to speak big truths to comfort me.

In fact, we all know that crying can't solve any problems, but we are often immersed in sadness and unable to extricate ourselves. It's better to play a joke with a friend at this time, or laugh at yourself, to relax the tension that has been tense. I have always liked a Uyghur proverb: An optimistic person does not grow old when his teeth fall out.

In the debate of the latest issue of "Wonderful Flowers", Ma Weiwei, who has always been mighty and domineering, was in disarray when facing Huang Zhizhong, whose aura was as steady as Mount Tai, and was caught by the other party. Seeing that the votes turned to the other party without hesitation, she was so angry that she couldn't argue, and suddenly her voice became cute: "Oh, you said you don't argue like this, why don't you try the new method you said." My heart, and Huang Zhizhong's together.

I didn't expect that someone as powerful as Ma Weiwei would be able to put aside the rules of the debate and submit to the opponent at this critical moment in the showdown.

When I went back to Zhihu, someone asked seriously: I made a mistake during the preparation of party members and was disqualified. Now I go to a public institution, can I pass the examination? The answer at the bottom is this: there should be no problem, you show them your photos, maybe they will forgive you because you are cute.

I liked this answer so much that I immediately took a screenshot and sent it to Weibo, with the phrase "Attention cute-looking friends" as one of my own life aphorisms.

Facing the cruel punishment that the world occasionally gives you, let's be cute. Yes, maybe I will forgive you because you are cute.

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Miss You Already quotes

  • [on a video call]

    Jago: How was the scan today?

    Jess: Guess what? Milly showed up.

    Jago: What? On the scan?

  • Milly: Vodka... tonic

    Jess: What are u saying ?

    Milly: Vodka... tonic

    Jess: You want a vodka tonic now?

    Milly: No... I Pre-order it.

    Jess: From the bar upstairs? I love you .