Yin Mingzhu, 32 years old, lieutenant, female military medical officer, strong and independent.
The distance between them is not only the four ranks of the lieutenant higher than the sergeant, but also Mingzhu's father, the commander-in-chief of the special forces. The commander wanted Mingzhu to marry a good candidate who had the potential to become a general, but Mingzhu fell in love with a sergeant who could not make his mark.
On Zhihu, the most classic answer to the question "What is love" is: It seems that there is a sudden weakness and a sudden armor.
The world's feelings have to go through the test of their own destiny, and the test questions of Mingzhu and Xu Shangshi are: It's not right to be in the right house. This is the weakness in this relationship. As for the armor that protects the relationship, where is it?
1. When he was marching for thousands of miles in armor
, his teammates didn't bear the heavy load. Sergeant Xu didn't say a word.
He was going to his ex-girlfriend's wedding, and he had to bring a beautiful pearl to dress up as a new girlfriend, and go in a beautiful and dazzling manner. He is not reconciled? Want face? neither. He wanted to make his ex-girlfriend give up on him completely and start a new life.
Sergeant Xu is taciturn, but his actions speak louder than words, giving people a great sense of security, principles and reliability. In the choices of others and himself, he always chooses others, silently bears the harm, and silently treats others well.
Mingzhu was attracted by these qualities of him. When Qiao Mei asked her what she thought of Sergeant Xu's life-threatening job, she replied, "I'm more afraid of being separated from him than this person's job. He is under the same sky, and I am not afraid of anything."
As long as she can be with him, she is not afraid of anything.
When the commander agreed with them to be together, Sergeant Xu only reported the good news to Mingzhu, not the bad news. He didn't mention that the commander asked him to give up his ideal of being a soldier and switch to business. He chose to bear the pressure alone, and was worried about it.
When there was an earthquake where she was stationed, Sergeant Xu came immediately. In times of crisis, he hoped to be close to her, to be close to comfort, and to be close, maybe he could protect her.
When she unfortunately contracted a serious infectious disease, he rushed into the isolation ward and held her for a long time. When she was sick, he would always accompany her and do everything in his power to save her from the brink of death.
Mingzhu is always very strong in front of outsiders, but in front of him she is as innocent as a little girl. Sergeant Xu told her that the commander agreed that they were dating, and she was so happy that she kept dancing and clapping her hands, full of girlishness.
When Sergeant Xu thought he was going to kiss her, he closed his eyes happily, and his little feet fluttered shyly.
A girl can keep her innocence and simplicity, because she has never experienced setbacks in the world and never tasted that life is not easy. But how can life be so easy and happy? If you live easily, someone must have taken on the hardship for you, and someone who loves you very much is guarding you silently.
And Sergeant Xu was the one who silently guarded the Pearl.
2. She is Armored
Sergeant Xu's good self-abuse physique at the height of the Pearl, and she has almost climbed Mount Everest.
The door was not right, so Sergeant Xu chose to retreat. He avoided Mingzhu, did not contact or speak, and took the initiative to distance each other.
Is this retreat due to inferiority complex? Is it the tough guy Xu Sergeant who still lost to the difference of military rank after all?
no. He lost to himself who loved Pearl too much.
Mingzhu asks what would happen to him if something happened to her. He replied, I will regret all the time I run away from you.
In the face of the commander's doubts about their relationship, Sergeant Xu also denied himself and had no confidence in himself. He felt that Mingzhu would be easier and happier in life by marrying another person.
So, he replied: "For Lieutenant Yin, I give up."
When Sergeant Xu chose to retreat, Mingzhu firmly chose to move forward without turning back.
If you want to hide, I will chase.
The commander sent Sergeant Xu away with a piece of military order after another. Again and again, Mingzhu ran to Sergeant Xu with his bags on his back.
He hides fiercely, so strong as a pearl, he can only use his superior status to order him to stop, and also order him not to get hurt.
Mingzhu called him a number of calls that he would never answer, and when he answered occasionally, he was overjoyed. But only happy for a second, and then doubt and worry again, anxiously asking if something happened. He didn't speak, and she happily reported the current situation to herself.
Being ridiculed for lack of self-esteem, he chased Sergeant Xu everywhere. Mingzhu disdainfully said, "I have good conditions in all aspects, especially I don't have self-esteem. Cut, what if I don't have self-esteem, how did Xu Darong love me."
They both put down their self-esteem for each other.
Mingzhu and Sergeant Xu said: I'm sorry, I'm a woman who blocks a man's future. But knowing that, I still want to run to you and embrace you with all my heart.
When you retreat, I will chase; when you are timid, I will give you courage; when you have no confidence in our relationship, I will give you confidence.
Pearl is radiant, dare to love, dare to hate, and wholeheartedly, she must take the initiative in her relationship, and she will never wait for others to give it, because she will give herself the feelings she wants.
Yin Mingzhu is like a hero in the story, her light broke his inner demon. Sergeant Xu finally changed his attitude and made it clear in front of the commander that he wanted to be with Mingzhu.
She has been courageous, for him thousands of times.
3. Emotions need the protection
of armor. Sergeant Xu is the armor of Mingzhu, and at the same time, Mingzhu is also the armor of Sergeant Xu. They face the difficulties in their relationship together and overcome the so-called weakness together.
In our lives, the reasons for being together are similar, and the reasons for being apart are different. Maybe it's because the parents don't agree, because it's a different place, because it can't let go of face.
Every relationship is destined to experience all kinds of hardships from the moment it is confirmed, and there will be inevitable weaknesses. Every relationship needs the protection of armor, and it depends on us to grow slowly, grow into each other's armor, and grow into the armor of this relationship.
I hope that in every moment of your vulnerability, the other party just happens to be the armor to protect you.
I hope that when the other party is in danger, don't let go of your hand, don't let go of your hug.
I hope that when you and I retreat, we can remember the original intention of loving each other gently, run to each other with all our strength, and move forward with all our heart and soul.
I hope we can all grow into the armor in love, for each other, thousands of times.
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