What should we do when we are not in a social environment?

Theresa 2022-09-19 03:53:03

There is one of the lala films that I haven't dared to watch yet, and I don't have the courage to face it--"Boys Don't Cry"
"Boys Don't Cry" The synopsis can't be read more than N times, I have seen it from the beginning its introduction. A girl who looks like a boy, met a girl as a boy, fell in love with her, and then her identity was revealed, followed by a tragic ending, the "boy" was beaten, abused and even raped, and finally was shot.
The first half of the story of "Tomboy" is inexplicably similar to "Boys Don't Cry". The tomboy falls in love with a little girl. She hides her gender, plays with boys carefully, and hides it from her parents. The difference is that the tomboy is still a child, and there is no dangerous situation for Brenton in "Boys Don't Cry". Her mother found out and faced the incident and protected her.
This is a literary film with a good ending. The slow rhythm and depressing atmosphere make people's heart gradually hang. Her parents let her go, and her parents also want a boy. Her mother is pregnant, and her father is busy, so she has no time to take care of her. Live in an unfamiliar town. And Gu Liang, who was the first to talk to her, regarded her as a boy, and in that small town, girls and boys couldn't really play together. A closed town forced him to pretend to be a boy.
There is no soundtrack in the whole movie, and it is quiet and disturbing. A calm and quiet narrative, how she faced the boy, how she faced the girl who had a crush on her, and how she faced her family. She lied to everyone, and the lie was so fragile from the very beginning that her younger sister, who was only a few years old, was the first to discover the truth. So the film makes people nervous since she starts lying and pretending to be a boy.
She told a big lie, and it got bigger and bigger, and there were loopholes everywhere, until finally the lie was about to be broken, and she begged her mother if she could move again. When I saw this, I didn't dare to look any further. For fear that the truth will be made public, she will not be allowed to join any group of her age in this town. I was even more worried about what a child of an ignorant age would do to her at that time. In foreign films, adolescent children are described as terrifying as demons. The movie Garden of Eden tells the story of a group of adolescent children killing a couple.
Fortunately, the end of the movie was beautified, and the little girl forgave her. Although those boys still did something to her out of their own naive and bad taste, the movie did not describe it in detail, and it stopped.
Fortunately, the ending wasn't cruel.
What should we do when we are not in a social environment? The ending of the movie is confrontation.

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Tomboy quotes

  • La mère de Lisa: Lisa?

    Lisa: Yes?

    La mère de Lisa: Come here. This is Mickäel's mum. She's come here to say Mickäel is not actually Mickäel but a girl, not a boy. She's waiting for you in the kitchen.

  • Rayan: [subtitled version]

    [to Laure]

    Rayan: We hear you're a girl. We're gonna check that.

    Lisa: Stop it! What do you think you're doing?

    Rayan: We're gonna check if she's really a girl.

    Lisa: Leave him alone.

    Rayan: You're right. It's YOU who'll check.

    Lisa: No, I won't.

    Rayan: If she's a girl, then you kissed her. It's disgusting. Right?

    Lisa: Yes, it's disgusting.

    Rayan: Then, you're gonna do it.

    [Lisa pulls down Laure's pants]