I think it's better to forget about these things. As someone who has been married, I suggest that you don't inquire about your spouse's past, and don't go after your spouse's past, and don't try to ask your spouse to do something about your childhood. Those things have nothing to do with you. When you are looking for a wife and a husband, it is mainly based on his performance when he fell in love with you, his character at that time, as well as his attitude and dreams for the future, not his history.
What happened decades ago, you must ask him to apologize? Or ask him to save someone who has been bullied? Or exchange your work, family, and career with each other? How is this possible? Is this fair?
In fact, many successful people and many unsuccessful people have been bullied and insulted. This is not a reason for you to fail, to be negative, or to hate society. How to recognize the past, that is everyone's own business.
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