A friend of mine, she has been controlled by her father since she was a child. As long as she is disobedient, her father will beat her with a belt. This situation gradually stopped until she entered junior high school. When choosing a university, her father asked her not to leave the province and to be by her side. After graduating from college, her father helped her find a job in the local area, so she started working. When she was in her twenties, she was looking for a boyfriend. The blind date was a person who came back from studying in Australia. After her father knew that the other party had the idea of going abroad to settle in the future, he stopped letting the girl and the boy continue to date. This girl is a child who understands her parents. She understands her father's dependence on her, so she makes concessions for her parents. Whether this kind of life is good or not is something that no one else can comment on. I always feel that it is good for her to be happy. However, I never asked her if her father had influenced her life in this way, whether she had suffered or struggled. You see, not everyone's parents have the courage to let their children leave themselves to pursue the world that belongs to their children.
So seeing Belliere reluctant to leave her daughter Paula to study music in Paris, I can understand the feelings of the parents. As the only child in the family who can hear the voice, Paula has always played the role of a middleman in the communication between the family and the outside world and the purchase of the family farm. Maybe the child grows up for a long time, and the parents also like the current life very much, so they mistakenly think that life will continue unchanged. However, for a teenage high school girl, the future is unknown, full of possibilities, and she can't wait to walk in and see.
I still remember when I was in college, at the train station, dragging my luggage in a hurry and stepping on the train to the north, I decided to leave the past here, with yearning for the future and forgetting the pain of the past, I have nothing. Nostalgia, I can't wait to have nothing to do with this land immediately. Never thought about parents, how they adjust to life without children at home. I worked hard to start a new life in the imperial capital, to forget the past, and to capture the release that this ancient capital could give me. I didn't even notice that for half a year, I didn't call my parents. It wasn't until after two years that the pain subsided, the freshness subsided, and life began to be a day-to-day routine, and I began to look back and see how my parents who watched me leave home were doing now.
I am fortunate that my parents have always supported me to choose my own life, to live freely. They hoped that I would not be like their generation, bound in a unit, faced with complicated personnel relations, received a small salary, and repeated and repeated my life. They hoped that I could be freer and more flexible. Chase your dreams. I did the same, but now every step of the way, I think about my parents, and I don't want them to feel forgotten while I'm chasing my life, despite living in a different city. Because no matter where we are, love never separates us.
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