In fact, I really like the male protagonist, at least in this aspect of the movie. Generally speaking, he is a good man with rich experience, responsibility, WTO accession, but still retains the passion for life and a little idealism, but he is also too controlling. Egotistical (not derogatory, confident men are very attractive, ideals are probably pure hearts, selfishness is not completely derogatory, but this may be difficult to get along with, and suddenly feel that you have some wrong views). But I was a little unhappy after seeing it. Since Nihe sent money, she wanted to show her ignorance or lack of experience in fighting. The film's perspective is too subjective. If you make another film of Nihe's mental journey, the story will probably be more round , after all, it is impossible that only old men are great and know how to compromise and admit defeat. Young girls have always been stupid, like in the movie, they only know how to give money stupidly without progress. Unless the director and screenwriter are all Mary Sue glass heart, Xiao Gongju, who thought that he was the only one who had sacrificed and suffered, and that he thought he wanted to protect himself, was not appreciative, and finally moved himself to tears.
The five conflicts in the story are explained neatly, with clear goals:
1. Break the car window quarrel - lead to class conflicts, show the male lead's reality, rich experience, and Nihe's kindness
2. Quarrel with her sister - the male lead is very realistic, I firmly support the male
protagonist 's point of view, and at the same time give the correct solution to marriage Bring out the difference in the background of the two people, and even the inconsistency of the three views, but there has never been two people who are exactly the same, and the difference must be
acknowledged When the king of his kingdom
5. Ismail threw money into the fire - satirizing the rich and charitable, the class contradictions could not be reconciled, again highlighting Nihe's silly white sweetness, and the protected Xiaogongju has no social experience
. Many details are also quite interesting: Kiss the back of the hand, tame wild horses, kill rabbits, Jali Village, and finally began to write the history of Turkish drama.
Let's talk about the marriage of these two people. I think the director borrowed her sister's words to give a positive solution from the beginning. Although it is not evil, the contradiction between the two can be resolved through tolerance. At the same time, both of them need to change. The young girl can't completely lose herself, but she must be grateful and believe in the male lead's intentions; the male lead must also believe and accept that there are ways that are different from him, even if he knows it may be within his scope of cognition. Nei fails to help her as much as possible, and I think he can do it well, because the male protagonist is still passionate about life and new things. Hey, Xiao Ming is right, marriage is a constant compromise.
I think the story doesn't explain clearly, what happened to them before, the two sides disapprove and trust each other so much, is it because the man didn't become famous? Then the girl is at home every day without work? Even if the girl doesn't work, should she try to find a way to help him? It seems not. . I don't see this very clearly. But from the attitude of the girl, I can understand her feeling of complete disappointment and give up. Something must have happened. The male protagonist probably broke her heart. Oh, its prequel should be the love in the series. .
If the marriage is not working together and supporting each other, but only one person is giving and the other is akimbo accusing this is not right or wrong, then it will collapse sooner or later. If they work together, even if they fail, they both share the responsibility and admit the failure. Moreover, the contribution to the family also needs to work together, not just career or hobbies. This is a career established on the basis of equality between the two parties. Respecting individuals and supporting each other, both talents may become better, and the family will be better.
Therefore, every time I get angry, it is because something else is shaking the foundation of the community of "we" that should be unreserved trust and mutual support. Up to now, I think everyone knows each other's shortcomings very well, but it does not hinder my love for you, but once this foundation is shaken, even if there is love, there is no way to live happily together. That's why I admit I love you but want to run away, I don't have the confidence that you can have a relationship with me that I want. Marriage is about love, but it may not be as heavy as it is depicted in the artwork. My mother told me before that every time I failed in love and couldn't get married, it was because I was too rational, and if I felt it was not suitable, I would separate. She even doubted whether I had ever been in love or not. I think it is my mother who has read a lot of romance novels. She is very lucky. As soon as she met my dad's first love, she got married. There is no comparison. My dad really loves her very much. Not everyone is as lucky as they are. It's very difficult in itself, so getting along should be more important to me than love itself, but it's just lucky to have love, it's a big luck. I sometimes don’t know if two people with different perspectives and growth will not be happy, just like in the movie, but it is certain that both of them must accept the differences, the changes that need to be made, and be careful to maintain and cherish The investment will definitely be more and more hard work. If you have to talk about motivation, it is probably only love, and there is no other reason why you should do such a stupid thing. Therefore, being together requires more careful maintenance than Shuang Yifa~~
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