She left her hometown and small town in poverty and came to the metropolis to make a living. Facing an unfamiliar environment, people with different temperaments, and the pressure of work and study, she endured the pain of homesickness and bereavement. Step by step, it would be cold. In winter, like a rough jade, after continuous polishing and carving, it becomes round and jade-like and radiant. And when she returns home, everything that was once out of reach, such as a decent job, a good admirer, a comfortable future, is suddenly within reach. When she was immersed in this arrogant vanity and couldn't extricate herself, she suddenly looked back and realized that what she had been running away from was not the self who had nothing, but the values that remained stagnant and stagnant, and pursued the constantly enriched life experience, not the Unchanging year after year.
Do you want to choose to marry a rich second-generation in a small town for the rest of your life, or choose an aspiring youth who can work together to create the future? How to choose a small town house or a big town bed is still inconclusive. There is no doubt that they can be the path to happiness, and the most crucial factor is what kind of life you want.
But often, when you decide to travel far, travel thousands of miles across the ocean to a foreign land, and have the ability to start from scratch, build a brick and stone wall with your hands little by little, you have to admit that the foreign country has worked hard here. In the process of becoming your familiar residence, in the place where you were born, you are already a passer-by. You can sing praises, cherish memories, and sigh about the unresolved nostalgia, but what you never picked up is a return ticket.
The body is like a pawn crossing the river, only advancing but not retreating, and the heart is like a horse running on the plain, only letting go and not retreating. A place of peace of mind is a place of peace of mind, and a place of peace of mind is the hometown.
[Also Teacher and Friend]
Apart from the heroine, there are still many vivid female images in this film.
In the small town, Alice's silly childhood friend represents the best destiny that small town women can get, while Alice's fragile mother is the end and portrayal of most town women's life, the bitter and mean proprietress It is more like a gray microcosm of the narrow values and sophistication of the small town.
The role of sister is undoubtedly the most gentle element in the film, gentle and full of power. She was the enlightener of Alice's pursuit of the vast world. She encouraged and supported Alice to leave the town. She said to her sister: "I can't buy you a future, and the life you want, I can't buy it." What does your sister want in life? I think, if there is no illness, the person who leaves home will be her sister. In this case, her sister is her hope and an extension of her will. When my sister's letter gradually filled with color, my sister read the letter and shed tears of mixed flavors. The back view of a thousand words and a thousand thoughts on the riverside with the green grass is the most beautiful and moving frame when I reminisce about this film. The death of her sister cut off the deepest bond between Alice and her hometown. However, missing you is like missing yourself, like putting a bunch of flowers on your tombstone.
On the way from a simple girl in a small town to a fashionable white-collar worker in the city, Alice met a charming woman and taught her the first lesson of standing in the city, and then she met the landlady and the female roommates with different personalities who gradually became her. In a foreign land, you can rely on reliable and close neighbors, and the female boss is word of mouth about Alice's survival rules in the workplace. They were women who arrived in the city earlier than Alice. They were of different ages and identities, but they were all well-dressed, well-dressed, elegant and confident. They are the leaders of Alice's gorgeous transformation, and the friendship between the women that I have always loved, is the self-confidence and care of the same women, and the warm and beautiful feelings for each other.
Of course, there will be many naked Alices who come from other places. Of course, they will also meet these mentors, mentors, and leaders on the road of exploring their own future. On a sunny day in the future, they recalled the growth history in this life, smiled and sighed: "Ah, what those girls taught me..."
[Love Companion]
What is a good partner? Waiting for you on the street late at night, sending you home, just to say good night to you. Take you to meet your family, and they are all lovely and kind. Even in public, he will praise you without hesitation. When you are sad, patiently accompany you, comfort you, and make you happy. I ask your opinion on everything, and every time I ask for your wishes, I will be nervous because I care about you, because I am afraid of being rejected. When you are not around, I miss and care about you all the time, and I am always afraid of losing you. We plan the future together with you and are willing to work hard for your future. Say "I love you" cherishly, and wish to dance with you in this life.
What is a lover? He led you to a hillside with nothing, and said to you, if possible, we will build five houses here, one for my parents and brothers, three for sale, and the remaining one, would you like to stay here with me? Life. After speaking, he looked at you nervously, and your head glanced to one side and looked into the distance. He anxiously added that he would start a construction company, work hard to earn money to support his family, and promise you a stable future. And humbly say don't say no, at least tell me you'll think about it. You turn around, take his hand, and tell him you do. He let out a sigh of relief and hugged you tightly. In those dozens of seconds, whether you struggled or hesitated in your mind, he was absolutely sure. Holding the hand of the son, growing old together with the son, the so-called young couple's years are quiet, and the happy and stable marriage in this world is nothing more than such a marriage proposal without fancy words and high-profile extravagance: a down-to-earth and sincere man and the simple and plain created by hand in hand. life.
First of all, he is a gentle and gentle man. Second, he loves you, respects you, cares about you, and cherishes you. The most important thing is that you are destined to meet in the vast sea of people.
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