not related to the movie

Kadin 2022-03-25 09:01:22

What I want to write has nothing to do with the couple in the film, after all, they are just acting out one of many unhappy marriages. What I want to write is what I associate with this film. You and I often hear the saying that love is love and marriage is marriage. In the end, the one who gets married and accompanies you to grow old is often not the one you love the most. What I want to write today is this damned statement. Marrying a person who loves you deeply with the mentality of living as a partner is no different from a thief or a robber, no, it is even worse, because such a person is basically punishing his heart. If one day I choose to get married, I must want to know what the other person, the person who is willing to marry me, made this decision for: because of liking, because of love, because of economic reasons, for reproduction, or just for To be a married person, like most people in this world. In short, if this answer is not for love, I will not accept it. Even if I love you again. You say, things in the world are not so pure. Loving someone can also be because she is rich, or because she is fit for reproduction. Then I ask you again, if I am no longer rich, or infertile, will you stop loving me. You say, I don't know. I thank you for your honesty, just sorry for such an answer, I can't accept it. Go wherever you like to find this person, and I wish you the best of luck. Please don't come up with a set of theories to educate me, saying that people like me are not mature enough, and that the pure love I want is not available, and I am destined to find no object. What I want to say is that too many people believe this theory that marriage is not the favorite, and the relationship between husband and wife in this world is messed up. People can get married for any reason, house, car, children, parents, people around, but only without love. I have never complained that being single is not good. I live very well alone. If you come to provoke me and want to break my original happy life, please come up with a reason enough to attract me, and this reason should be Love is the urge to live with me, to you, I am irreplaceable. You can love someone before me, but before you decide to be with me, you have to make sure you don't love anyone anymore. If you are still in love, or are still being tender under excuses like being like a sister, being like family, etc., I hope you'd better stay away from me. There is nothing wrong with long-term love, but it is shameless to marry one person but have long-term love for another. If everyone can adhere to this principle and choose their marriage partners prudently, more people will definitely find the right person. Instead of putting the wrong person in the wrong position, mistaking others and mistaking oneself. If I love you with all my passion, if I see you as life The most irreplaceable one in the world, then you, please treat me like this. At least when you make a promise. Otherwise, neither a romantic relationship nor a marriage relationship means anything to me. I married you in the name of love, but you only regard me as a traveling companion in life. I'm sorry, but I can't take on such a lofty task. What I want is only your most ordinary, even mediocre, but just give me a Human, just love.

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  • Kate Mercer: You used to love your birdwatching.

    Geoff Mercer: I did, yes.

    Kate Mercer: It's funny how you forget the things in life that make you happy.

  • Geoff Mercer: Lena, this is wonderful. Thank you.

    Lena: Not bad for an old fascist, huh?