I'm sorry, the Internet addict teenager can't think of a better mood after watching the movie (barrage) than this rotten street sentence.
I spent a weekend in Shanghai mixed with happiness and sensitivity and chaos. I witnessed the occasions where family love and friendship emerged in a concentrated manner, and I was willing to be moved. For someone like me, who hates the sense of ceremony from the bottom of my heart, probably only from an objective standpoint of a bystander can we fairly evaluate the wedding ceremony, a love-hate ceremony.
After I came back, I couldn't change my work status and watched a movie related to marriage: 45th Anniversary. A 45th-anniversary couple is preparing for an anniversary party when they suddenly receive news about their husband's first girlfriend. Years ago, they had an accident on their way to the Italian border. Their girlfriend fell into a crack in the iceberg. The husband received a letter saying that the body of his first love had been found. So the memory door of his first love girlfriend Katya was opened: he began to unconsciously want to study the melting of glaciers and the warming of the climate. He couldn't help talking about the past, and even wanted to go to Switzerland to see the body of his girlfriend.
The barrage said that the husband is a scumbag, and that the heroine must be very sad, especially when the heroine asked him, if she hadn't had an accident, would you marry? He said he would. The male protagonist also lied, saying that he was just a girlfriend, but in the photos discovered by the female protagonist, it was obvious that the first love girlfriend at that time was pregnant and her belly was bulging. Maybe already married, although the plot is not clear.
In fact, the male protagonist must not be a scumbag. The best love is company. 45 years of company is not something that can be questioned by saying "you can't compete with the dead". In fact, it is nothing to save the photo of the first love girlfriend, but the discovery of the body of the first love girlfriend brought him back to the past, his youthful years, his sincere feelings. However, in fact, in the last part of the film, the male protagonist is already sober, he bought a gift, made a memorial day confession, and choked up unexpectedly: because he realized the importance of the memorial day ceremony.
I think my understanding of this film is that no matter how strong and deep the relationship is, no matter how long it is, it will be questioned, it will not be able to stand a little taint, and it will never be perfect. If there is such a couple in reality, after the anniversary party, the female lead may be down for a while, but she will eventually understand, and she will come out and see the present and the present, just like the male lead.
This is probably a "contagion" of feelings between husband and wife, a chemical reaction. At first, you walked into the emotional fog, and then I was infected too. You were about to come out, but I just fell into it. But in the end, we will all come out and recognize the present. Because without that ability, there is no possibility for the two of them to enjoy 45 years. Most of my life, ups and downs, spent together, still intimate, still respectful.
The relative freedom of a partner is not to interpret every emotion of each other, and not to define it in terms of temporary emotions, so that the other party will have freedom. Although the heroine may feel emotionally that he has never forgotten his first girlfriend, and even wake up in the middle of the night and climb up to the attic to see her photos, she will be extremely disappointed because she cares about him very much, but she will not deny them all There was a happy time between them, and there was a mutual support and company. These are all love.
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