Let's walk into the summer time of plum wine and sardine rice bowl

Brain 2022-03-26 09:01:12

I like "Haijie Diary" very much. I watched it twice. The first time I was sick, I was in a trance, but I naturally integrated into the ordinary daily life of the four sisters: watching them cook in the old wooden house and eat together with relish ; In the hot summer, drink plum wine together in front of the small yard, enjoy the cool, and chat. I'd love to have a drink too! For a moment, I forgot that I was sick, I could only drink hot water, and it was cold and damp outside the window, and I couldn't even catch the tail of summer, and I couldn't help but feel a little melancholy. However, that night, he slept very peacefully, without dreams, and slept until dawn. Sleeping well and getting up well is my initial impression of "Haijie Diary", although it is mainly related to my own state. But the second time I watched it, I found that the consideration for people in the details is still the most touching thing in the films directed by Hirokazu Koreeda. No matter how bloody the plot, the focus is still on how the people related to it can live a better life? Even if it is a matter of life and death, don't turn a blind eye to the beauty of the cherry blossoms in full bloom. Everything in life, the relationship between people, is like walking at a speed, not in a hurry or slow, sometimes a little closer, sometimes a little farther, people are calm, and naturally they can sleep well. However, "peace of mind" is a lifelong lesson for most people. Therefore, no matter from which point of view, "Haijie Diary" is a simple but meaningful movie. [The absent father is still omnipresent] Although this is a film about four sisters, in the film directed by Hirokazu Koreeda, the "father" has always been indispensable, and even the absent father is still omnipresent. The reason why the three sisters live alone is that their father cheated and left home, and their mother was unbearable and left home. The elder sister, who was already sensible at that time, was forced to become the head of the family, and she always resented her parents. The daughters born after the father's derailment have the opportunity to become their youngest sister after the death of the father. It is said that family love is a lifelong bond, and biological parents, whether they agree or not, can always find the shadow of their parents in their children. The second sister, who has always taken good care of her boyfriend, is not like a father who is easy to sympathize with women; although the impression of her father is vague, the third sister, who likes fishing like her father, is actually very similar to her father; The younger sister, always considerate of other people's feelings, such a tender heart, is also from the true inheritance of his father. The eldest sister, who looks the least like her irresponsible parents, is actually the most similar in character to the younger sister. Whether it is for work or family, she is a person who gives silently and cares deeply about feelings. The father has a ruthless side of cheating, and also has guilt and misses for the three sisters when they can't see them. The scenery that the father often takes his younger daughter to see is very similar to the scenery that he used to take the eldest daughter to see. These three sisters will never know about their father again. However, because of the death of his father and the appearance of his younger sister, he has the opportunity to get close to his father, who has been blurred in his memory. Sometimes, the loss between people is a regret that cannot be recovered. Most fathers who abandon their daughters have difficulty getting their children's forgiveness, because most of the abandoned children see everything they have been deprived of by their parents. But in the films directed by Hirokazu Koreeda, he can always look at problems with a more lenient attitude. Losing my father, but gaining a half-sister, I found that regret can actually be less regrettable. This is one of the reasons why I love being Director Hirokazu Koreeda. Of course, the situation in "Haijie Diary" is not the same as that of ordinary families. In ordinary families where the father is absent, the head of the family is almost always the mother, but in the Xiangtian family, he lost his mother as well as his father, and the head of the family became the eldest sister. . The hurt of their father's affair and the hurt of their mother's departure are evenly matched to them, making them feel like they have parents without them. Even because their parents left one after another, the family of three daughters became their real family, and they grew up healthy now because they abandoned the family of origin that hurt them. Therefore, adopting a half-sister does not need to take into account the feelings of the mother who has left. As long as they are willing, the younger sister can naturally become a member of the family. Blood relationship, whether it is hurt or love, is also related to the angle of view. [Food heritage, what the heart wants] There are many scenes related to "food" in the movie: the four sisters eat one meal after another at home, the sea cat cafeteria and the bobcat pavilion where everyone often gets together, all of them are more than 20 years old. shop. Taste memory is always the most trustworthy emotional memory, firmly remembering the taste of the same family food, as if you can always remember the best time with your family in your own way. The eldest sister is the best at cooking "seafood dishes" that my mother is good at, the third sister likes my grandmother's "fish ball curry" the most, and the younger sister is the hardest to forget her father's "little sardine rice bowl". In addition, the second sister likes the "roasted horse mackerel" and "Nanban barbecue" in the sea cat cafeteria. The taste of the old shop is similar to the taste of home. The aunt in the shop has been a specialty dish for decades when she was growing up without her mother. , Unconsciously, it has become a warm taste like home in my heart. Familiar taste, there is always an irreplaceable sense of security. The wooden house left by their parents, although old, is spacious enough to be the best haven for the four sisters. The plum tree in front of the door is handed down from generation to generation, and the scenery and taste cannot be ignored. Since grandma, the plum wine that must be brewed every year has a sense of ceremony, no matter where people are? As long as you drink a sip of the home-brewed plum wine, you always feel that your family is not far away. The newly joined little sister, starting from picking plums, integrates into the family step by step. It's a simple matter, but it symbolizes the wholehearted acceptance of her by the three sisters. A cup of sweet and sour plum wine is like the sour and sweet growing process of the four sisters. The best thing is that now they can adjust the sweetness and sourness of the wine by themselves. Quickly get drunk with the sisters. [Sisters' daily life, luminous details] The films directed by Hirokazu Koreeda are always light, but they are light, but they are much richer than many rich films, like the bottom of a pot of kelp that has been boiled for a long time, the soup is sweet, but not monotonous , taste it carefully, you can taste its unique and delicate taste. In "Haijie Diary", what I like the most is the details about the relationship between the four sisters, from the unfamiliar to the familiar, from the grudges to the opening of the heart, in the somewhat similar and somewhat different hearts, they try their best to be together. Living a good life, that beauty, makes people unconsciously forget the grievances and grievances left by the previous generation, and only remember the bits and pieces of the four sisters together. For the little sister, it is extremely happy to be cared for by the three sisters, because the three sisters are not only the sisters. The lively and cheerful second sister is most like her sister, she cares about her love affairs, and is also the first person to paint her nails. The third sister seems to be more like her companion. Before she came, with the care of two older sisters, she naturally grew up a little slower. Both of them love sports, and conversations are the least stressful. The eldest sister is like a mother, she takes good care of her, but it is difficult to express her thoughts. She is always afraid that if she is not careful, her existence will become the reason to stab her sisters. The four sisters went in and out together, ate together, put up window grilles, went to the beach, ate in the cafeteria, and set off fireworks, just like when the three sisters were together. Gradually, she began to dare to joke with her sisters, and she dared to do whatever she wanted at home. When her height was engraved on the pillar by the eldest sister, it was just an action, but it had the meaning of identification, and it felt like she really belonged to this family. Sisters have lived together for a long time, and tacit understanding is naturally everywhere. Sisters wear each other's clothes and hate each other; when the second sister is angry, she will occupy the bathroom, but when she encounters something she is afraid of, she subconsciously shouts and hopes that the eldest sister will come to help; the eldest sister brings a bunch of apples home, sisters I just thought it had something to do with men; the eldest sister was still talking about the third sister's pickles and soy sauce, and she also complained that the younger sister was spoiled by the third sister and began to cook rice and so on. These ordinary details have a warm afterglow due to their deep understanding of each other. [Life and death are natural, beautiful and long-lasting] The beginning of the movie starts with a funeral, and the end of the movie also ends after a funeral. The plot of illness and death is handled naturally by the director, just like eating and working. There is no fuss, and there is no excessive emotional fluctuation, the only thing is the attachment of the dying person to the world: Don't miss the cherry blossom season, which is only once a year, and envy others for leaving precious daughters. Besides, there is only gratitude for having been in this world. Although birth, old age, sickness and death happen every day, it is difficult for ordinary people to face it with a normal mind. It is the film directed by Hirokazu Koreeda, always in a calm atmosphere, try to face impermanence naturally, and believe that leaving is not disappearing, those beautiful things that have been felt, and the traces of hard work will still be deeply felt. stay in the hearts of some people. "Haijie Diary" is a movie that you can watch for a lifetime, you can concentrate on walking into it, or you can accompany your life quietly. Occasionally you can drive a movie and concentrate on other things, or watch and fall asleep, wake up and continue, no matter where you start watching, it's good. The summer time flowing in the movie is like sweet and sour plum wine, which makes people want to pass through the cold winter as soon as possible, have a drink with the four sisters, and continue to watch their beautiful ordinary daily life.

My article will be published on WeChat public account for the first time: aiyung32, welcome to subscribe

View more about Our Little Sister reviews

Extended Reading

Our Little Sister quotes

  • Sachi Kôda: I want you to stay forever.

    Suzu Asano: I want to stay forever.