I still remember when I was in college, the literature course I took as an elective, the keynote was feminism (feminism in a better way, English is the same word). Feelings to add to the building blocks -
"When it comes to origins, gay men are more natural and natural, because they have biological mechanisms to satisfy each other. And lesbians tend to be emotionally unfilled, satisfied, and warm to each other. The feelings that arise in the future can be traced back to the source, and even related to the rise of feminism. The basis and mechanism of the two are different, so when discussing the issue of homosexuality, we have to discuss it separately from men and women.
" Once you analyze how the relationship between Carol and Therese originated and deepened, if you are willing to take a step back and pay attention to the original relationship experience of Carol and Therese, it will be easier to understand that "the relationship arises out of nowhere, but the love is deep." the reason.
Therese is surrounded by a straight man (cancer) suitor, and Carol is married to a straight man (cancer). Your decision is your best arrangement.” Straight men often disdain the thoughts of the woman in front of them who they claim to be the most caring, caring, and caring woman. They naturally ignore these women as a person, an independent The subject consciousness that the individual needs to be respected.
I still remember that when I was watching Revolutionary Road ("The Road to Floating Life"), there was a barrage that pointed out that the heroine was unhappy and desperate for life and death -
"Woman, it's not good to have too much subjective consciousness..."
The barrage at that time turned out to be No one has attacked this kind of argument. On the contrary, some people agreed. In the case that the gender of the commenter could not be investigated, as a quiet spectator, I laughed it off.
Many people told me that they clearly pointed out that "our society is equal to men and women", I laughed and didn't want to comment, as if I was watching that clearly arrogant barrage, but in fact I always thought The words are -
true equality between men and women, in today's society, is no longer just that we all have the right to work, we all have room for promotion, and we all have the freedom to marry and love. Things are not that simple.
If we say that the foundation of equality between men and women is innately possessed, then the equality of subject consciousness is the superstructure. Without this layer, what we say is equality between men and women, and what we say is not so good is that a woman is a woman who helps to solve physical needs, helps to have children, helps to support the family, helps to serve the father and mother of the man, and takes care of the family affairs. female worker.
And the female friends around you still think that there is enough equality between men and women now, is it really enough? You feel that half of the property is divided into you, the custody of you can be won, and you can have private money, which means equality, which is too contented.
Because you didn't take into account the knowledge you've worked so hard to learn, the diplomas you've worked so hard to get, your personal preferences, your accumulated life experience, and the wear and tear you should have as a person.
In this era, there are too many people who give up their subject consciousness for life, but they don't even notice it. But if you ask if you want life or love, they will tell you clearly the fact that you have given up your subjective consciousness.
When I was younger, I always tried to separate the characteristics of paranoia, habit, dependence, etc. from love, to refine a pure concept of love.
When I grow up, I understand that pure love is based on individuals with subject consciousness. We are all independent individuals, with our own lives and different pursuits, and this does not prevent us from attracting, cooperating, and pursuing each other. There are concessions, then share, work together, and progress together, and finally live together in peace and harmony.
In the film, the straight men questioned and admonished the two female protagonists respectively, and they were also questioning any female audience who had a little sense of subjectivity——
"Do you think this is love? Do you think you can turn your back on it? You are not the only one, she will soon hate you, and then you will have to come back and beg me, and beg me to get back together! I want to be with you. What do you want me to do now?!” The
suitor could not understand Therese’s photography hobby, and did not dislike her being a soulless salesperson in the mall at the time, and took her When traveling, you have to take that shitty camera with you for a joke.
He never looked down on her interests and aspirations from the bottom of his heart, but he regarded the direction he should strive for as a concession and sacrifice for the other party.
"Isn't what I gave you enough? Isn't this enough? We have a wonderful family, we have a daughter in common, why do you always do so much to destroy everything we have?!"
As Carol Husband, he often goes out to work and socialize, and there is very little time for two people to get along, meet, and console each other. He never cares whether she is willing to accompany her to those occasions, but cares that she, as his wife, has an obligation Accompany him on these boring occasions. She should cooperate with him, even if his feelings for her are so thin.
The first time Carol cheated, it was with a female friend she had known since childhood. In the most desolate mood, they warmed each other and developed feelings for each other. The husband just regarded this as a show, without vigilance and vigilance, thinking that it did not have the energy to shake the original marriage. He did not care about her emotional direction, but he cared very much about the role she played as a wife.
Since then, the time and place are right and people, and two women who are dissatisfied with their desires are brought together, and a love is formed between them.
My angel, Flung out of space.
You are my angel, flying to me from far away space.
This period of love that was considered immoral and immoral by the world at that time did not go smoothly. And they went from being each other's company, admiring and warming each other, and finally to undressing and naked facing each other. Behind their physical satisfaction, they were full of emotional foreshadowing. Although it was a bed scene that was not amazing enough, it was unforgettable. foreplay.
Knowing that things cannot be violated, that separation is inevitable, Carol entrusts Therese to a friend to accompany him back to the original place, leaving a sincere letter, which is exactly such a letter, describing love to me word by word Outline:
Dearest,
There are no accidents, and he would found us one way or another. Everything comes full circle. Be grateful it was sooner rather than later.
You'll think it harsh of me to say so, but no explanation I offer will satisfy you. Please don't be angry when I tell you that you seek resolution and explanations because you're young.
But you will understand this one day, and when it happens, I want you to imagine me there to greet you . Our lives stretched out ahead of us, a perpetual sunrise. But until then, there must be no contact between us. I have much to do, and you, my darling, even more.
Please believe that I would do anything to see you happy, and soI do the only thing I can—I release you.
"Dear you,
there is no accident in this world. Sooner or later, he will find out about our affairs. Everything is destined, and we should be thankful that this moment is early, not late.
You will think that it is cruel for me to say this, but I can't give you a satisfactory explanation. Don't be angry when I say this, you are looking for answers and explanations because you are still young.
But one day, you will understand, and when you understand, I hope you go Imagine me waiting for you on the other side. At that time, our lives will bloom together on the road ahead, like an eternal sunrise.
But until then, there can be no contact between us, I still have too much to deal with , and you, my dear, there will be more.
Believe me, I am willing to do anything in exchange for your happiness, so, I decided to do the only thing I can do - I choose to let go."
And love, and They do not tire of separation, and it turns out that they have each dealt with the thorns that hinder the growth of love, and each has accumulated the nutrients needed to nourish love.
Love itself will not change its essence and original intention because of outsiders arguing. Pure love will become rich after years of precipitation and experience, because there are no impurities that can be fermented and deteriorated in love.
Years later, when we open this unique wine again, we will once again indulge in the rich and rich aroma of rich, heavy, mixed flavors and soft and harmonious.
Yes, this time it's not a hallucination, it's not a dream, this time it's love, unique.
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