isolated heroine all over the world confirmed that her husband had cheated on her, what broke her down was not only that Xiaosan was the daughter of a pair of friends who were only 17 years old, but also that the "friends" around her had already known about it.
He was the only one who didn't know it, like a fool. At that moment, it seemed that everyone was laughing at him, and everything he was proud of in the past no longer exists.
Colleagues who always thought they were good friends had already known about it but didn't tell him, and the answers given in the face of forced questions were also false. She said it was just a momentary love affair, and the relationship only lasted more than two months. But the mother-in-law revealed the truth inadvertently. It was an extramarital affair that lasted for two years.
Every time she heard this, she lost not only her husband and love, but also her friends and friendship. At that moment, the heroine must have felt that the whole world turned her back on her.
2. What is more intolerable than cheating is the scumbag who refuses to admit
that her husband is a proper scumbag. His scum is not that he cheated on him, but that he never admitted his mistake or apologized from beginning to end.
When the heroine had a showdown with him, she once said that when they got married, they agreed that everyone could fall in love with someone else again, and this is not a problem. But when one party falls in love with someone else, be sure to tell the other party. This convention may be common in modern society. After all, after seeing so many people and things, we must admit that the possibility of loving only one person in our life and living with him until old age is too low. Everyone has the possibility to fall in love with someone else in the future, which may not even be within their control. It's not anyone's fault.
But the foundation of marriage is not only love but also trust. Infidelity destroys not only the loyalty to love, but also the commitment to marriage. Honesty is the basic requirement of marriage.
And this honesty, the husband can't do it. Why can't it be done? Just like the reason why he never divorced the heroine, he has no money, and he needs the heroine to support him. He used the heroine's money to invest, but he suffered a major loss. I dare not tell the heroine and I can't find a solution, I dare not show up with the heroine, worrying that the heroine will find out about the financial situation. This is another big reason why the male lead is scumbag. Even if you eat soft rice, you don't even have any responsibility at all. You are not a man.
3. Divorce is not a love breakup Divorce
once thought it was not suitable was not a big deal.
The sudden departure of her mother-in-law changed her mind and decided not to divorce. This surprised her friend, but she said that she could not leave her husband at this time.
Marriage is a promise to be by your side forever, no matter what happens, good or bad. The husband was as sad as a child because of his mother's death. The way he cried so much made the heroine realize that marriage is not just love. Of course, at that moment, the husband also discovered the preciousness of his wife's presence and the warmth of the family, so he was determined to break up with the mistress.
Divorce is really not just about whether love is still there.
4. How does a divorced woman
come to see a doctor? The lawyer who came to see a doctor has exposed the injustice of divorce to women. He said: "I have fought a lot of divorce lawsuits, and most of them are women getting houses, savings, children. But that doesn't mean women win, because in a few years, men can make more money, find a new love, and pay There is no family burden. And women have to take care of children, work, and struggle to live, and there is no time to start over."
Yes, maybe they are not satisfied, maybe they are unwilling, but this is the reality after all.
In the whole film, the most distressing time for the heroine was not that she was beaten to death by her husband, nor that she was slapped from the back of the head by the mistress. But when she asked her son who he liked more, the son answered his father without hesitation, and accused her of only knowing about work and making money. The whole family depended on her to work hard to support her, but in the end what she got was the betrayal of her husband and the incomprehension of her son. The child is still young, he doesn't know the importance of money, what he values is who can accompany him more.
The reality is that you have to work hard to be financially able, and not having enough time with your family is the price you pay. vice versa. The two are at opposite ends of the scale, and how to balance is an art. But more often than not, life simply doesn't give you the chance to master this art.
The most heartbreaking thing is the accusation of my son. Fortunately, at the end of the film, when she rushed out to rescue a passerby who suddenly fell ill, all she saw in her son's eyes was worship and respect. I think that at that time, the son no longer complained about her, and he was proud of having such a mother.
5. There is no winner or loser in marriage, and life doesn't matter
. When the heroine returned to the town where she was born, her former colleague's grandfather persuaded her to let go. She blurted out, "Why let him win?" Grandpa said, "Why don't you care about winning or losing, just be happy." Marriage is not a game, and there is no need to decide who wins or loses. If you agree, you will be divided. The most important thing to take care of is your own mood. Never make yourself unhappy for the so-called "win". As the saying goes, money is hard to buy and I am happy.
Life is not fair it is how you deal with it.
View more about Doctor Foster: A Woman Scorned reviews
