Where there is marriage, there will be cheating

Olen 2022-09-09 21:16:35

Where there are people, there will be rivers and lakes, and where there is marriage, there will be derailment.
After chasing "Doctor Foster", this is the sentence in my mind.
As a general rule: This is a cliché family drama about a husband cheating on him. But it was a lively shoot that combines suspense, detective, and discussion of the value of life. (There are minor spoilers ahead, watch carefully!)

1. The plot is ups and downs but not bloody

. This drama does not have the common cheating in the domestic cheating drama. No hysterical laughter, hahaha; no slap in the face between the main room and the mistress, bang bang bang. Even many scenes that should have been strongly conflicted were handled with restraint and restraint.
But the plot is still twists and turns, suspense from life. The first four episodes are layered to keep you looking forward to the plot. By the fifth episode, you will see the heroine’s high-energy counterattack (Am I talking too much?)

2. The portrayal of life is so real and outrageous

In domestic family ethics dramas, the happy ending of the husband's prodigal son is often exchanged for the audience's cheap emotion and comfort.
However, in this play, even if the heroine is able to get back the property that belongs to her, she takes back the custody of her son. Still see her husband driving away with a young third party detached.
Why can a scumbag live a new life with a mistress instead of being punished?
Because this is fucking life.

3. Three different views: The value of a woman comes from work, not from a man

. Most domestic TV dramas set the wife as the image of a hard-working victim. Even if she is betrayed, she will not hesitate to ask for the fullness of her grievances to influence her cheating husband. But the setting of the heroine is different, she is a doctor, an independent woman with her own job. She doesn't stress once: I love my job.
As a doctor, her value comes more from the identification of her patients than just from men and families. You will find how attractive a woman who works hard is.
At the end, the heroine rescues a patient in cardiac arrest on the street, calm and professional, as if her whole body is shining.
What cheating husband? What young third party? who cares !
After chasing the show, you will understand why the title is "Doctor Foster" instead of "Daughter-in-law's Tears" or "The Temptation to Go Home".

"Doctor Foster" also explained several issues:

1. Marriage is: loyalty is relative, and derailment is absolute.

At the beginning of the film, the hero and heroine have a warm and sweet love in the bright morning. In the next second, the plot reversed, and a blond hair tore the fig leaf of her husband's cheating.
That's how life is, moving forward in change, you never know what's going to happen in the next second.
To paraphrase the male protagonist: "I loved her at first, and I thought I would love her forever. But you know, life is changing, work is changing, and the people I come into contact with are changing, and I don't know that I will love her for two different people. produce the same feelings."
As long as there is marriage, there is bound to be the possibility of derailment, and of course loyalty exists. It's just that loyalty is a relatively static state, while derailment is a state of motion.
Marx's philosophical theory has long told us that stillness is relative, and movement is absolute.

2. The woman is: I can't stand your deception more than cheating. The

hostess found out that her husband cheated. She didn't cry, make trouble, hang herself, or question her husband face to face. On the contrary, she kept giving her husband a chance, hoping that he would tell herself.
She said: "We said when we got married that we could fall in love with other people in our lives, so lying is the bigger problem. If you have someone and you won't tell me, that's a real betrayal.
" the attitude of most women. Now that the derailment has happened, maybe I can choose to forgive. But
I really despise you for cheating and lying. How about being honest? Compared with cheating, women can't tolerate cheating more.

3. The man is: until the last step, he will not admit that

the heroine knows that the hero is cheating, and say to him: "I don't want to prove it, I don't want to catch you, I just hope that you can confess. Because even if you really do that Now, I think I still love you." But the man still chose not to admit it.
This is probably the nature of men.
I made up my mind about the conversations the men had when confronted by their wives.
It will probably be like this:
Female: Is there anyone out there?
Man: No, you are always suspicious, what about the trust between people?
Woman: I saw you guys go shopping together.
Man: Just an ordinary friend.
Woman: I see you have a room.
Man: We just chatted and did nothing.
Female: Take out the photo of the kiss
Male: I swear it was just a kiss, nothing else.
Female: Take out the photo of going to bed
Male: I didn't go in.
Female: Take out the slap photo
Male: I didn't ejaculate.
Finally, if the show has any guiding significance for marriage. That could be: Take control of your family's finances as much as possible. Worst of all, watch your money!
In this way, even if one day you have to stage the big bloody drama of divorce, you can skip a few episodes.

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