A small town, a family of three, a cheating incompetent husband, an attractive woman with a successful career, and a sensitive teenager. Such a combination seems to be around, or there is a possibility that my family may end up like this. I don't even know if I'm watching the drama or reading the manual, and I'm worried that if I get to this point in the future, will I be able to have the calm and decisiveness of the heroine. I don't think so. Just every time I watch the show, I will give Mr. a few eyes and a few warnings. Although I admire the heroine's calmness, who is this calm and easy to live? Because the person who doesn't love has long had the heart to hurt first, and planning a plan is nothing but hysterical revenge, and the thrill of revenge, in addition to comforting yourself, can't help the heroine erase the truth she least wants to see, that is her Her husband no longer loves her. He would rather give up the hometown where he grew up, the career that had just started (although there is no hope of continuing it), and the most reluctant son, and take the third child to live in London. And the heroine just won a house for herself, won a group of friends who had deceived her, and won a son who didn't understand her very well.
Originally there were only five episodes of the TV series, but because I worked overtime every day, I watched it intermittently for half a month before I finished it. But it also gave me a lot of time to guess where the plot is going. Unconsciously, I stood in the perspective of the heroine and thought about what to do next. But there is one missing condition that always makes my assumptions and the direction of the plot different, that is, I have no children. I don't have children yet, and I'm someone who can run away from marriage at any time. Maybe this is one of the reasons why I don't want children, because I'm afraid that children will become a hindrance to my decision and become an obstacle to my heart. I have to admit that the reason why I am afraid of being restricted and bound comes from the excessive control of my parents over my life during my childhood and adolescence, so I am especially afraid that any factor that defines how I live will appear in my future days. Without the child factor, no one would be the reason why I would stay in a betrayed marriage. Seeing that the heroine is soft-hearted again and again, in order to give the child a complete home, in order to make the child no longer have any feelings for his father, she is willing to let go of her husband's derailment and endure her husband's domestic violence. These are absolutely unacceptable to me, and I think that's the message the show is trying to convey. Through the plots of the heroine that should not be turned back, tell women how to correctly deal with the misfortune in marriage.
As a typical Leo, I understand that the reason why the heroine loses control and collapses every time she finds out the truth is not about who he sleeps with, or whether he is sincere or not. The most unbearable thing is being deceived and being treated as a fool. When everyone around knows the truth, the heroine's life becomes a drama in their eyes. Cooperate with her to play a happy life face to face, mocking her behind her back without knowing it. I am most afraid that my dignity will be trampled on so unknowingly.
Marriage is a gamble, but I don't think it's a lifetime gamble. If you don't want to continue playing, just throw the cards and leave, don't play the old tricks, don't steal the cards to see the cards, or you will be self-defeating and lose the whole game.
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