After watching the movie "Mummy", I fell in love with the band Oasis.
Oasis' "Wonderwall" in this film makes people suddenly enlightened. The simple melody sings the heart of this problem teenager, and also sings some of our hearts.
Even though Steve is a little crazy, a little impulsive, a little unworldly, he has a love for his mother that cannot be expressed in words. "There are many things that I would like to say to you but I don't know how." Yeah, poor Steve, born with ADHD, can't control his violent behavior, even when trying to express it in a normal way It's hard to love your mother.
This family is somewhat incomplete. There is no father, only mother. The mother is still a bit rotten, smoking and drinking and swearing, and Steve does not have a good environment to grow up. But Mom was always looking for ways to help Steve control his emotions. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world. Mom has searched for various methods all the way, but always hits a wall. Steve still can't help but cause trouble.
Fortunately, this desperate family welcomed a neighbor, a female teacher with language barriers. She is like a ray of sunshine that warms this cold home. She helps Steve learn and control his temper. At the same time, mother also has a companion to talk about, and the family can be considered happy.
Why did this female teacher come to help Steve? When she first came to this house, Steve treated her a little bit inappropriately, but she pushed Steve to the ground in a fit of rage, and Steve was so scared that he wet his pants and squatted in a corner crying. stand up. This boy who looks irritable and strong on the outside is very fragile on the inside. He needs human love.
Mom and Steve have misunderstandings and estrangements. Mom always wanted to help Steve in the right way, but how could Steve be bound? I remember the middle part of Steve riding a skateboard alone, with open arms, accompanied by "Wonderwall", this is the life he wants, the freedom he wants. Knowing that he was finally sent to the hospital by his mother helplessly, he broke free from the restraint belt and rushed to the window.
This is love and freedom. When you are forced to make a choice because of love, will you choose to be bound, or will you choose freedom? Steve chose freedom. Because he was born an eagle soaring in the sky. The love he wants is to have someone who can understand him and let him fly. But under all kinds of constraints, who can give him such love? Maybe everyone wants such freedom in their hearts, who wants to be suppressed and trapped? But reason makes us unable to choose, we can only choose to be bound.
When we are bound, many things are submissive. We go against our will and do many things that we hate, but we have no regrets because of love. Seeing love in this way is sinful, but it is not. After you have love, you are bound to be bound, and even if bound, you will still be happy because of love. This is not the same as the happiness that freedom produces. How to have both? Only one side can compromise. Make the choices you think are the most valuable in order to have no regrets.
As for whether our choice will be recognized, Who really cares? Love will recognize it. But there are very few cases where we can really be recognized. Who can really understand what Steve is doing, and even if he does, can he do the right thing for him? Just be yourself.
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