I ll be good to him.
I ll bring joy to him.
-----"To know him is to Love him""
from the movie From the perspective of Amy, the two most important people in Amy are Blake and her father. I have learned in psychology class that during childhood, parental disharmony may cause children to be psychologically self-blaming and emotionally unsound. Children will think that parents quarrel or one party leaves because of their own bad behavior, and often, children have no place to verify that such an idea is wrong. Amy's father had an affair when Amy was very young. Although he lived with the family until Amy was 9 years old, Amy actually lost his father's love very early. The father's love she longed for, the man she longed for was in this family a place.
So when she was a teenager, after her father really left the house, and after she was unhappy for a long time, she made a boyfriend, hoping to get and make up for the love she wanted, a lot of love. This is the over-compensation that I think is normal. The other over-compensation happens when she thinks she is too "fat". Precisely because Amy felt she was too fat, she longed to be beautiful and slim. So she insisted on using vomiting to maintain her figure. The upside of over-compensation is that you can gain something you didn’t get as a child to build confidence and satisfy your vanity; but the downside is that there are sacrifices in this rush to get things done, and in Amy’s case, she Health, body, and life are sacrificed.
Emotions are always strong and chaotic in Amy's world.
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