Honestly, marriages all over the world are the same

Dayana 2022-12-26 09:47:59

Yesterday, I watched a British mini-TV series "The Derailed Lover". I heard a lot about men cheating. I thought foreigners were open and would not care so much about their husbands cheating. It turns out that in love, women all over the world are the same. Sexually, men all over the world are the same. Can biology alone explain it? Men have insatiable sexual desires, do women not? Why can men cheat so comfortably, but women have to be loyal? Unhappy marriage is a common excuse for men all over the world to cheat.
The heroine's performance is very good, the various emotional ups and downs are in place, and the psychological changes of a woman who has been betrayed by her husband are portrayed very realistically. From the discovery of clues, he became suspicious, but he was afraid that he was over-hearted and desecrated the trust between husband and wife. However, women's intuition is often very accurate, and doubts arise, and they will not be easily dispelled without seeing the evidence. So she checked her mobile phone and followed him, but he went to see his mother. He said that every day he didn't go home after get off work, he came to the nursing home. She believed it, confessed her doubts, and laughed at her distrust, but in a blink of an eye, she found out that he was lying, so she got angry. Continuing the investigation, the facts of her husband's derailment were conclusively confirmed. Friends around her knew that she was the only one who had been kept in the dark. How uncomfortable it felt to be deceived by everyone's partners! I don't know if the husband is greedy for novelty and cheating on sex, or if he is really emotional and maintains a good relationship with a person. A male partner in the play said that there are only two kinds of men in this world, one is cheating that is not leaked by the wife, and the other is that the wife finds out but does not interfere. If the husband is destined to cheat, which way is the wife more likely to cheat? How about accepting some?
She hoped that her husband would take the initiative to admit it, but in front of her, he lied again. She made it clear that if she confessed, she would continue to love him and accept him, but he denied it. If something is wrong, keep cheating. Her last hope was dashed, and she made up her mind to divorce. This is a combination of strong women and weak men. The wife is a senior doctor and can make money, but the husband keeps losing money in business. Because of trust, all the assets of the wife, including the inheritance of the parents, are handed over to the husband. Only to the point where he realized that he had mortgaged their current house. Originally, she only wanted to get her things back, but she didn't expect to be so poor that she had nothing. The lawyer's words revealed the cruel fact that no matter what country, even if a divorced woman gets a house, half or more of her property, and custody of her children, she still loses. After divorce, men can start over with other women, they have careers, and they can earn money quickly, but women have to live hard with children. I always thought that in a patriarchal society like China, women are afraid of divorce. After all, women who are independent in economy and personality still account for too little. When I was a teenager, I didn't rub the sand in my eyes. The other half did something I'm sorry for, and I definitely want to get a divorce. It's only been a few years. I can understand why so many women let their husbands do things but turn a blind eye. Men all over the world are the same. Maybe it’s not as good as this. Living alone, not everyone can bear the pressures of life, psychology, and society.
Because of her husband's derailment, she was emotionally unstable, and she was repeatedly complained by customers and was suspended. Her husband's young and beautiful lover was pregnant. When he confessed to his wife, he refused, so he broke up with him. His mother took a lot of sleeping pills and committed suicide. She felt pity and sympathy for him, and decided to make up. Do not know anything. However, within a few days, she found that they were together again, she was furious and completely desperate. Questioning, still deceiving. Suicide, unwilling to die like this, decided to go back to reveal the truth and get back his property and children. But her son accused her of only caring about work and not spending time with her family, so her father went to other women. People around her also accused her of being strong, arrogant, and conscious of being superior to others. A lot of agreeing comments appeared in the barrage immediately. Women shouldn't be too strong. There are reasons for such a character husband to cheat, and so on. But they forgot that there was a couple in the play at the same time. The husband said that his wife was well-behaved, gentle, and a good wife. No matter how many women he slept with, he would never divorce her. A strong wife is probably one of the reasons why everyone can sympathize with a cheating husband. It is the man who betrays the marriage, but the woman is blamed. The injustice to women in this society is so deep, what is even more frightening is that most women are blaming women. .
She chose the most embarrassing way to debunk the incident. At his lover's house, in the presence of her current husband, his lover, her lover's parents, and her younger brother, she calmly spoke of their affair. Everyone hates her. She created the illusion that she had killed her son, and made her husband feel the pain of losing everything and his loved ones. This kind of revenge is very pleasing, but it is saturated with a woman's despair. The one who betrayed her could not understand the pain in the heart of the one she loved deeply, how much his behavior hit her, and how this woman became so hysterical. He felt that he just made a mistake that every man in the world would make. Even if he fell in love with someone else, it didn't mean he didn't love you anymore. I can't control the instinct of a creature, you should understand me. Only by letting him experience the hurt his wife suffered will he understand that the so-called instinct is just that you don't want to control it.
The husband thought that his son was killed by this mad woman, and injured the heroine in his rage. Lovers, neighbors, sons, and friends who came to see the blood-stained heroine finally realized that she was the victim. The weak image of the heroine at this time has won people's sympathy. Only when women are hurt to this extent can they admit that it is the man who made the mistake.
At the end of the story, the heroine calmly watches her ex-husband and his belly-bellied wife go shopping. They are moving to London. She kept her house and her dignity in this small town. When someone had an accident, she, as a doctor, flew out like an arrow to rescue her. The son witnessed his mother's work and showed a proud smile on his face. He must have finally understood his mother.

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