Maybe the three views of this film may not be all right. It creates a talented murderer, a sympathetic father who does not need to be responsible for the murder of his children. However, there is a sentence, this father cried and said: "But that's mine Child." Maybe God's punishment for him was enough? He also lost his only child, so he also lost his career, his family, and his life's direction.
Do we have to be held accountable for our children's actions? Do you share the benefits and risks with his life? After the age of 18 or after work, he is an independent individual who can support himself, an adult who can take responsibility for his actions. Even so, as a parent, should he still atone for his mistakes?
If a child goes the wrong way, must there be a problem with the parent's education? All of us as parents are moving forward by groping. No one knows what kind of child will be educated, not to mention that there may be various mistakes in the middle, such as encountering a bad partner who takes him to drug use, such as encountering an immoral teacher. Teach him wrong values, such as encountering gangsters and insulting him, leaving a shadow, such as encountering the wrong love object making him depressed or crazy... Life is difficult, and there can be no deviation.
We have already tried our best to live our own lives, and we have to bear the weight of our children’s lives. Wouldn’t it be too tiring? If it is a failed child, needless to say, you have to bear the rest of his life; if it is an ordinary child, in China, you must at least share the burden of setting up his home; if it is a successful child, when he reaches the peak of his life, you have already passed Knowing the age of destiny, you can't eat too much, and you can't go too far. A luxurious life doesn't mean much to you. Even if you immigrate to the United States, you may not be willing to let go of your relatives and friends here.
So in fact, we may not share the benefits, but the risks cannot be avoided from the day he was born. This film is probably to tell us that when you criticize a pair of parents, please think in a different position. When you want to criticize anyone, please think about it, if it is really you, can you afford it? Do you deserve this?
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