Different parents and children always have different ways of getting along, Anthony's mother is free and unrestrained, so Perhaps to a certain extent, he won more trust from his son and gave him more independence and space; Hubert's mother was somewhat helpless, and the pressure of survival struggle itself was overwhelming, but the son was unable to breathe. Always escaping conflict and rebellion, but at this moment, all Dolan can say and all I can say is only what I can say from the perspective of my children.
My relationship with my mother is actually not that good. I can always touch on the point where the other party is the most angry. I don’t think it’s reasonable to explain to her because it takes a lot of time to explain clearly, and I can’t shake the value orientation and concept or even communication given her by her life experience. method, and she felt that I was always disobedient or even too independent, just like what Hubert and his mother said, "You don't need to ask, I have already told you what I need to say", she felt that I didn't reveal anything to her. As a caring little padded jacket, a girl should have all the little secrets and little feelings of her mother. In my opinion, she is always looking for or pursuing a daughter's one-way intimacy and dependence on her mother, and she also yearns for the mother's earnest teaching to her daughter. However, I have never given her such a scene and opportunity, so most of the time her anger and anger are a bit frustrating in my eyes, a kind of loss of face as a mother even if no one is watching
her It seems that she attaches great importance to face, especially as a child to make face for her
I learned calligraphy and calligraphy when I was a child. At that time, it was very popular in the park to use a brush made of plastic rod and sponge tip dipped in water to write on the ground. When our family of three passed the park one weekend, a young boy happened to be holding an old man's pen. I was writing, and there were a lot of people watching. When the little boy finished writing, he would praise him. My dad told me to write. I just twisted my thigh with my fingers and said, "You can't go, if you're embarrassed, just write one", so I still remember how much my mother likes people who are praised and envied by others. I don't mean anything but I remember that moment so vividly to this day, so to some extent I disobeyed any suggestion she made to show off with a secret cheer, after all, I was never in my own name in the eyes of all other people. The daughter who exists alone is XX's daughter. If the distance between each other is more than five meters, or the people who come to greet her will not look at me, then why does she need me to add the icing on the cake?
I think my mother has always been She tried to correct me and then guide me on the basis of not understanding me very well. She can really do the things I hate one by one and
stay at home on vacation, "Such a big person stays at home and doesn't know how to help. What does it look like, that XXX......" It's just what I say, this is really the way I hate the most, I can accept it with peace of mind and then get up and do what to do. But if you have to bring someone else's child to press me again, I just want to retort "then let him do it for you", maybe because there are too many comparable people around, speaking of whose child's undergraduate school, graduate school, The way I look at my work unit and when I have an overseas internship opportunity, and the look of hope with a little disappointment in my eyes, I just want to turn my head; If you wish, express it well, and always use others to compare what you want to do. You can do it.
She has an incomprehensible stubbornness about her experience accumulation, and once my discussions with her dry up within 15 minutes, she starts "social vision theory", girls still want to get married and have children, you don't What do my mother-in-law think? I can't accept homosexuality, etc., but everyone knows that the existence of secular values is single, because most people do this, so they call it secular, but it can't be because A few people who don't do this ask them to change and make this mundane a 100% progress bar, so in the end it comes down to face - because it's different from others and may be talked about to lose face, or my mother really She is a social group person, not like my dad. She needs to accompany her, she needs friends, she also needs to be lively. I have always believed that if she becomes a neighborhood committee, it may give our community an unprecedented prosperity. However, she is now in To a certain extent, the Party and Mass Work Department is quite suitable.
Because of the difference in life experience, I can never have the same views, concepts and values as my mother, and we will not have the same communication mode and way of speaking. With the outlook on life, the 16-year-old Hubert has only a few moments to achieve short-term peace with his mother in the struggle with his mother, and I am now tired of repetitive conflicts, doing what is required and then keeping silent at the right time will be enough. Give me more moments of peace and solitude. This is not for distance or selfishness, but in my opinion, for the best maintenance of the development of our family that is not diluted. There
are too many factors that bind a person to walk independently. The biggest is The supply of family love, it can be said that the home is what we miss most when we first get involved in the world, because it has given too many things that we need to piece together a little bit by ourselves, and when we finally put it together successfully, it is our own home or self. The world is gone, and that moment is also the time to formally say goodbye to the family that gave birth to me and helped me grow up. When there are
too many grievances, I think it’s better to leave; when I’m too angry, I think it’s better to die; too much powerlessness When I was young, I wondered why it is not as good as other people's homes, but ah, the flowers on Moshang are not as good as the ones who follow them.
I don't know why. I had a very good relationship with my mother when I was a child. Watching her by her side, talking to her
but now I can't do it anymore, I can do it to anyone else but she can't
When I talk about her or think about her, I actually still love her, but not
so
sincerely There are 180 people I love more than my mother
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