The gap between the rich and the poor and the spiritual level, the disadvantaged party itself has a sense of inferiority, so even if the superior party has good intentions, the inferior party will find it difficult to accept, especially when the expression is arrogant or contemptuous, The disadvantaged party will feel more humiliated. As a result, communication barriers between different levels of society have been created, and even conflicts have arisen.
At the beginning of the incident where the child smashed the car window, the elder brother in the tenant's hatred towards the landlord and the housekeeper was obviously a sign of poverty and urgency. Looking back, you can see that the elder brother also suffered from misfortune in life. That's not right...), so when people's survival is tested, morality and rationality become very fragile. And even if the younger brother is a moral model among the poor, he will persuade him to apologize and be humble, but when the housekeeper ignores his self-esteem, he will also swear at idiots~~
At the same time, the moral sense of the rich is also limited, especially the self-made rich , that is, the rich generation, it is difficult to have real kindness. I have worked hard for everything up to now. Why should I help you poor people for free? You should work hard like me. This should be the mentality of many rich generations. Just like what the host said: I worked hard to get rich since I was a child, and I have no childhood and no youth. Therefore, the female reader sent a letter to ask for help in running the school, and it was over.
On the spiritual level, everyone likes to judge other people's lives, just like the master and his sister, both accuse each other of the lack of noble meaning in each other's life, and attack each other with the weaknesses in each other's life, even if they know what their own life is. You have to justify yourself in every possible way. Maybe everyone is reluctant to admit that they have been mediocre. . .
Between the host and hostess, it is obvious that a rich old man is looking for a young wife. The hostess has no material pressure to live, even if she can't stand the way the hostess talks and does things, and interferes with her own life, she still has no courage to leave. At the same time, although the hostess has no life experience and life experience, she still wants to use charity to give herself a sense of existence, so once her husband intervenes again, it will collapse in an instant. Although the husband has good intentions, but because of the poor expression, the wife has the attitude of "as long as you pretend to be forceful, no matter right or wrong, I will refuse" attitude, and it became difficult for the husband and wife to communicate for a time.
In the end, how should we face the people and things on the road of life, there is an uncle who said it very well: "Since there are some things we can't change, we must learn to be flexible, don't judge others, and accept things as they are." Especially our relatives, even if they have some problems or shortcomings, we should not take it seriously. Instead of hurting their family members and not getting the changes they want, it is better to accept them as they are, and they will live happier. In short: tolerance is the source of happiness.
When giving advice or judgment to others, even if the original intention is good, pay attention to the way of expression, and the most important point is that the other party will accept it. It is better not to play the piano. Those who can be good at their own bodies alone can think and help the world. To put it bluntly, it is to take a piss to see what you look like, and then think about whether you can point fingers at others. Selfishly speaking, we are already very busy on the way to improve ourselves, and there is no time to judge others, right?
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