The male protagonist was born in a family of farmers who were not rich. After receiving higher education, he clashed with his traditional and rigid father, so he broke with the big family with rebelliousness and passion, and went to the big city to pursue his ideals. The real world is cruel: his wife died in childbirth, he was arrested and tortured because of his aggressive words and deeds, and in the end his life only left him with a disease and a son, shattered ideals, and embarrassment of life. It made him devastated and knew that he would die soon. In order to find a home for his son, he had to take his son back to the home where he had left with nothing. Life played a joke on him. Thirteen years later, he changed his mind. The circle is back in place, but with a lovely son.
However, the contradiction between father and son still exists. The father cannot forgive his son for running away from home. In the limited time left in his life, the son must seek his father's understanding and help the child face life independently. The grandson cannot adapt to the new environment. They are living in their own closed fantasy world. Grandpa, father, son, three men are learning how to face new changes and how to adjust their relationship with each other. In the end, it is the warmth of the family and the unbreakable love that makes them understand each other and learn to face life strong after losing their son or father.
The whole film is unpretentious and feels like a retelling of a true story, with stories and characters that seem to be all around us, déjà vu, within our grasp. A conservative, stubborn grandfather who is not good at communication; a kind, kind, and nagging grandmother; a rational and helpless father who has suffered from the vicissitudes of life; a lonely, sensitive and insecure son. There is no climax in the whole play, there are only plain, real and touching dialogues and scenes. The father cried helplessly and despairingly when his wife was in childbirth; the grandmother's thoughts and excitement for her son's return, and her overly enthusiastic love for her grandson; serious and rigid In front of the innocent and lovely grandson, the grandfather felt warmth and learned to love and be loved; the grandson showed helplessness and escapism when faced with a strange environment and lost the person he depended on; the father wanted to let his son learn to face without himself alone He held back his reluctance and gently pushed his son's embrace away. First love, childhood friend, rambunctious but honest relative, former ideal, reality cruel, life and death, deep love and farewell, hug and departure, quarrel and communication, weakness and strength, laughter And tears, loneliness and warmth. . . . . . Everything finds its own destination in the blood-connected family, in the true and ordinary love.
The real world is like this, full of misery, misfortune and regret. I regret that I am a complete atheist. How I wish there was a supernatural God who could bless every kind and ordinary person. But in addition to God, we have family and love, and it is she who gives us the courage to bear in the face of pain, so that we do not lose hope and motivation, and makes us feel satisfied in every moment of joy and happiness, so that We keep a pure and kind heart.
Thank you to my family, my son, my love.
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