We will only grow old and not mature

Makenna 2022-09-27 11:51:39

What the hell is maturity? I often ask myself this, I really can't like such a shrewd word, what is the line between maturity and immaturity? It seems that you live to such a day that you are different from the day before, why should we change ourselves and make ourselves look mature and sophisticated?
The heroine in the movie is definitely immature in the eyes of most people. A divorced woman in her thirties ran back to her hometown to mess up her ex-boyfriend's life, in order to prove that she was still charming and the same as before. That school girl finally slept with the cripple she laughed at back then. There are many people who see this and will definitely say: What kind of ghost is this! ! Indeed, this is not a laugh-out-loud or romantic movie, and all I see in the whole movie is the absurd life of a female loser. , but somehow he saw his own shadow. 26 years old is not a young age. I am currently single and unemployed. There is nothing worse than all this. There is no doubt that I am a total loser in the eyes of others. Maybe they will think in their hearts: this girl will live in this life It's over, she won't get better.
At this moment, I am really afraid of becoming the Charlie Theron in the movie. I also want to reconnect with a person I have known for many years. I still fantasize about the ending of the fairy tale. My mother always told me that there are many things you have always wanted. Maybe the day you get it, you will find that everything is completely different from what you imagined. What you've always wanted to do is not as easy as you think.
She may be right, but she may be wrong, I still want to do what I wanted to do when I was 20 years old, and I'm even more annoyed that I didn't stick to it when I was 20 years old. I have always believed that if a person wants to do something, he still has to try it. For what you have coveted for a long time, you'd better try it once, otherwise it is not a pleasant thing to leave a thought in your heart. .
Although the heroine in the play has done something that is particularly mindless in the eyes of others, it is not meaningless. If you look at it according to the principle that existence is reasonable, then it is meaningful.

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  • Mavis Gary: Sometimes in order to heal a few people have to get hurt.

  • Mavis Gary: I just want you to know that I'm feeling everything that you're feeling. Buddy, these last few days have been some of the best in my life.

    Buddy Slade: They have?

    Mavis Gary: You don't have to pretend. I know what's in here.

    [touches Buddy's forehead]

    Mavis Gary: And I know what's in here.

    [touches Buddy's chest]

    Mavis Gary: Buddy, you're my moon. My stars. You're my whole galaxy.

    Buddy Slade: [avoids a kiss from Mavis] Mavis! What are you doing?

    Mavis Gary: You don't have to be afraid. It's okay. You can come to the city with me like we always planned.

    Buddy Slade: What the hell are you talking about?

    Mavis Gary: We can work this out. You know we can. We can handle this like adults.

    Buddy Slade: Mavis, I'm a married man.

    Mavis Gary: I know. We can beat this thing together.

    Buddy Slade: You're better than this. I have to go and I think you should leave.