love and dignity

Dax 2022-03-27 09:01:09

Before the Spring Festival, my grandmother was hospitalized with a cerebral infarction. But I didn't have any big touches in my consciousness, it should be because I rarely had the chance to get close to my grandma when I was a child. When I went to the hospital for the second time, I remembered the movie "Love Amour", which may have been in the hard drive for two or three years, because although I haven't seen it, I know some of its introduction, and I understand that I can see the heavy things I need to know in it. s things.

The heroine has had a stroke, and the wife, like all other people facing this situation, should take care of her at first, because it is natural to take care of her loved ones, but patience and tolerance are limited, This is also human nature. I remember that when my wife gave her water, she didn't cooperate, which made him slap her in the face, her aggrieved expression, and his apology afterwards. I laughed when I saw this episode, I can't explain exactly why, but I felt like it was a love-hate episode. And the plot at the beginning when he mistakenly thought she was joking and teasing him, first worried, then angry, then worried again. The plot twist is also a love-hate relationship. He asked her what kind of person he was in her mind, and she said he was a monster, but kind-hearted. These can all suggest some character traits.

Dignity is a big issue for patients and families whose condition is only getting worse. She doesn't want others to see her like this, he understands her and respects her. He is reluctant to answer the phone, and he is reluctant to explain their current situation to outsiders, and he doesn't need other people's concerns. These concerns do them no good, and some of them may hurt their self-esteem. As the daughter visited several times and wanted her mother to go to the hospital, but as a father, he was troubled how to explain why he didn't go to the hospital. And the neighbor's greetings, in my opinion, added to his inner pressure.

Besides, the two nurses, the first one was happy when they took the money and left, feeling a little out of place. In terms of behavior, they should be considerate of the patient's family members and keep a low profile. The second is very unprofessional, taking care of patients rudely, and swearing when dismissed.

The surreal footage represents the hero's consciousness and ending, or memory, or ending.

There is no soundtrack in the whole film, no opening credits, and no ending credits. The emotions are very restrained. Rare music from ambient sound, piano and CD player.

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Amour quotes

  • Anne: You are a monster sometimes.

  • Anne: What would you say if no one came to your funeral?

    Georges: Nothing, presumably.

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