Every child once thought that he was the most unique one in the world. If there is external help, it will set off a child's inner fantasy. Pauline and Juliet are shields and spears for each other, protecting their fantasy world. In fact, we are all arrogant individual individuals, and the arrogance that grows into loneliness has become more and more acknowledgment that he is different from everyone else.
The rapid psychological and physical changes in adolescence make the demons in the children's inner world begin to dance wildly. Some of these monsters are called rebellion, some are called violence, some are called lust, and some are little monsters that only exist in your heart, parents. We need to see these little monsters in time, but they can't kill them with one stick, which will awaken more and stronger demons to resist. It's time for parents and children to make frank friends, perhaps compromise with those monsters to be friends. I don't want to use the word "fight of wits" between parents and children, it would appear deceitful and cunning.
I don't agree with "human beings are inherently good" or "human beings are inherently evil". At the beginning of human beings, there are no concepts, and the origin of all concepts is created by the environment after birth. The family is the biggest provider of this environment. The so-called "Scholarly Family" and "Etiquette House" is this environment. The quality of the family environment is built by the parents alone. There is a certain truth to the saying that "no parenting is the fault of the father". The environment outside the family is beyond our control, but every child in the family needs stability, security, respect, harmony and freedom. What Julia lacks is security, what Pauline lacks is freedom, and there are many things we need. Once one of our rights is suppressed, it is easy to be limited by thinking and go to extremes at the absurd age of youth.
Learn to love, learn to repay. Everyone is worthy of love, even if he is a big bastard who can do no evil, there will always be a bit of kindness. (Maybe there are too many disadvantages, and the existence of a good becomes extra shiny and precious). In the same way, a shortcoming of the closest person will be infinitely magnified and overwhelmed.
This movie made me re-examine myself again, even if I am no longer young, I am still so dreamy, rebellious and blindly critical of parents. A lot of things do not need a psychiatrist, what is needed is sincere communication from my parents, or understanding, approval or respect for my choice. The world is already so numb, parents should give their children a good one. Parents have come from those hard journeys and told you the path that is really easy to walk. Believe your parents, even if you have your own thoughts, please respect their most sincere love for you.
Dare to dream, who said I am not the next dream come true. . . .
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