Married "children" grow up quickly

Dominique 2022-03-25 09:01:11

The movie has a lot of entry points. I want to talk about real fathers represented by Winnie's father. They are busy with their "games" and have no time to take care of the needs of the other half and their children, even if he can set aside time to listen and give respond. Their hearts have long been bewitched by the splendid appearance of life, forgetting the love in their hearts, they are only attracted by those fame, status, power and interests, and they go with the flow in order to escape the ordinary life and their own ordinary life.

An adult, a member of a family, is addicted to online games, social entertainment and other activities for the sake of his own playful nature, completely disregarding the needs of others, and what is more, will euphemistically call it "for the future of the child" , Please, the needs of children are actually very simple. Companionship and love are better than the emotional emptiness and indifference of many material accumulations. Please don't wear such a big hat, in the name of false love, to satisfy your own selfish desires.

Although many people were not treated with tenderness and sincere care when they were young, it does not mean that we must educate our children in the opposite direction from when we were young, and keep giving material things. The more we give, the more barren our love will appear. . And what children who do not grow up in love will become in the future, you can imagine for yourself, and you will know by watching the current social news.

If the "little boy" is like this for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will not be much better. Because the mother of the child not only has a small child to take care of, but also has a "big child" to take care of. If things go on like this, the accumulated hard complaints and no returns, all kinds of problems can not only be solved by money, not to mention if the other party is also immature People, the family must be in dire straits, which has formed a phenomenon commonly seen in China today, "absent father, anxious mother". In addition to insecurity and extreme insecurity, children who grow up in such families are also very good at ingratiating themselves. . When a person does everything on the premise of pleasing others, I just want to say, such a life, how sad: he will be very concerned about the evaluation of others, low self-esteem, huge pressure, and frustration tolerance can be imagined.

Those married "little boys", please, please grow up quickly and stop playing "children's toys" and indulging in online games.

Of course, you will say that I don't have back pain when I stand and talk, and I am not you, so how can you understand the depressing and stressful life after marriage. Indeed, life is not easy, not to mention the life of two or three people has to adapt to. I also know that it is one thing to understand and another to do it.

But we are human beings, we think we are smart, excellent and creative, although sometimes we are selfish, hypocritical, indifferent and lazy. You see, even the box monster has the courage to come out of the box, rise up to resist the unfair treatment of fate, challenge our own cowardice and submissiveness, why should we make excuses for our own life?

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The Boxtrolls quotes

  • Winnie: [explaining to Eggs, who has been raised as a Boxtroll since he was a baby, how to act around humans] When you meet someone, you must look them in the eye, and shake hands.

    [a confused Eggs does jazz hands]

    Winnie: What are you doing?

  • Eggs: [practicing his manners] It's a pleasure to meet you! It's a pleasure to meet you.