look up to his mercy

Abdullah 2022-10-28 12:50:20

Many women get divorced because their husbands have an affair. The women can't stand it, feel hurt, and leave in a fit of rage. What if you leave? ——Many divorced women, after a few years, realize that they were too naive at the beginning and that their husbands had an affair. Of course, it is not a particularly beautiful thing, but in the long river of suffering in life, this is a fart. A woman only understands when she grows up, but life can't go back.

After a divorce, a woman will always find other men, maybe more than one. When she is no longer so "pure", she will become indifferent to men. Only then did she realize in her conscience that she was also responsible in the beginning.

Women have a lot of unrealistic fantasies about men. You can often see that kind of article. Women set standards for men, how to be a good man, responsible, generous and so on. Women never understand men, just as men don't understand women. On this issue, there is no communication between the two sexes, and they can only deceive each other. When a woman is fortunate that she has finally met a good man, nine times out of ten, she is deceived. Women like to be fooled and need to be fooled.

If your husband is having an affair, dear woman, you should be thankful, because at least it means that the person next to your pillow, your glory, your head, at least he is not gay, pedophile, or any other pervert, at least it means you The husband is a "normal" man. You should thank God for it.

This topic will be discussed here first.

I have always had a question since I believed in the Lord, that is, as a "humanist" (who knows what this word means?), I often couldn't help but ask God: Are there no kinder people in the crowd? Theology has only one absolute answer: there is no one righteous, not even one. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Man is "totally corrupted and totally depraved". When it comes to dealing with "people", Christianity has a "dark" heart. - but I don't believe it, it doesn't match what I "see". We always have "faith" in ourselves and in "people", no matter how filthy and depraved we are. We can always find merit in ourselves and in those around us, I am a person who sympathizes with the weak and sometimes helps others, I am usually kind to strangers, and so on.

Yet the Lord knows the heart of man.

The heroine in this play is a kind woman, a good person is rewarded, she has a happy marriage, her husband is handsome, with a credible smile, considerate, and takes care of her family. What do you want. There is a small episode in the play, there is a "disgusting" colleague who wants to ask her out, knowing that she is married and a mother of three children, this colleague only shows up a few times as a supporting character (but not a role model). , but it seems that he is the only person who understands the marriage of the male and female in the whole play--he doesn't believe it at all, there is the kind of marriage you said in the world.

Is there such a fairytale marriage in the world? Of course not, what the fuck is there to ask? But you never think so at a wedding.

Watching this kind of drama, many dramas in Europe and America are like this. It puts the audience in the position of the judge. Anyway, we like to judge others. Implying and misleading the audience, making you guess wrong one by one, and testing your beliefs (or theological concepts) at the same time. As soon as the first episode came up, it was obvious that there was a problem with the victim's father - then the problem came, the father would Won't kill your own kids? The moral judgment has begun, and it touches our fragile moral bottom line from time to time. What can we believe in such a question, come down, and the grumpy-faced Aunt Susan and his rude and ferocious bald son—we judge people by their appearance, of course there are Reason to suspect them, - and "psychic" neurotic men, - in terms of "theological concepts", there are evil spirits behind such people, or you believe that there is such a thing (ideas often don't work), that is Someone can indeed get "information" from the dead, - your "theological concept" tells you that you don't believe in such a thing, - the drama's "theological concept" may not be yours, - the male protagonist has no move in the end Well, it's really weak to ask for help from a lunatic, he thinks it's weak to commit adultery occasionally, and it's even more so to ask for help from a psychic, although he is generally more rational than everyone in the town. - the other boy, the heroine's son, is suspicious too, - and of course the sad old newspaper seller, who can't forgive himself, and he can't forgive himself. —Young pastors can also be a source of suspicion, because they always harbor misconduct towards minors.

This warm and peaceful town staged a brutal realism. Finally, when the heroine learns the truth, she vomits.

- Let's face it, we often feel like we want to vomit.

Tell yourself, were you sexually assaulted by an adult as a child? Homosexual harassment? Have you ever had nasty childhood sex? Have you ever sold your body even just once in order to obtain some practical benefit? Maybe it's your instructor? Then what qualifications do you have to laugh at those female stars who have sex with producers? Could it be that the motivation for postgraduate entrance examination is purer than "going to the theatre"?

Each of us is cleaner on the outside than on the inside.

I remember the excitement of riding a bicycle with my classmates to watch porn videos after high school, and I still find it very funny. Is that the saddest thing in my life?

Quote from the pastor in two episodes:

"We are overwhelmed by the troubles that come from everywhere, but we are not overwhelmed. We are confused but not hopeless, we are scarred but not abandoned by God. We are punched hard. Knocked down, but not destroyed, we gather here, the most precious thing is to remember that God has not abandoned us. Therefore we are not destroyed, and never will be." (Episode 4)

"New life is a gift, may as well first Accept it, even if you don't want it now. Go for a scan, feel it first, this life is God-given, maybe you don't agree, even if you don't accept it, He's giving it may not be what you want, but It's what you need." (Episode 7's

hero says in the final episode: "God will put you in the right place, even if you didn't know it at the time."

This kind of play tests our sense of reality. Self, taking "people" and taking "life" for granted, forces us to examine ourselves, even if we don't want to.

All goodness comes from God, and the only thing we can do is look to His mercy.

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Broadchurch quotes

  • DS Ellie Miller: You don't eat fish and chips? What kind of Scot are you?

  • DS Ellie Miller: Most people have a moral compass.

    DI Alec Hardy: Compasses break.