"If only I fucking knew"

Jerald 2022-03-24 09:01:42

This man is really miserable, as a Jew, living diligently the Jewish way, being a decent man, but losing everything one after another: wife, property, and finally even health and life, and maybe a son.

Like a hurricane, it just comes. When they came, the key could not open the door of the bomb shelter. Everyone could only stand outside and watch. Perhaps the only thing they could do was to take a closer look at the tyranny of fate in the last few minutes of life. This is the end of the movie.

The film is strongly autobiographical. The Coen brothers' father taught at college, and a sister who spent all her teenage years washing her hair, and the two brothers went to Jewish school five days a week like their son in the film, but they never liked it. But it's more than that, and it's not just about the Jews.

At the end of the movie, the American flag at the school is about to be blown away by the hurricane, and Uncle Sam turns out to be unreliable. Don't forget what happened in 1965, when the United States was mired in the Vietnam War.

Neither the Jewish law nor the American dream was lost. The world turned out not to work like the math formulas this man had written all over the blackboard. So he wondered why.

Why did fate treat him like this? He asked a spiritual guide of a higher level - the rabbis, and none of them could give an answer.

There's an even older joke where a man who was unlucky in life asked God, "Why, why, why? Why is everything wrong in my life." God said, "If only I fucking knew."

No answer, no why, that's all. Misfortune is misfortune, the world is inherently impermanent. We helpless humans can't do anything but grit our teeth and accept it.

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Extended Reading
  • Kennith 2021-11-28 08:01:18

    Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you.

  • Hollie 2022-04-24 07:01:05

    Extracting the philosophy and taste of life, religion and reality, men and women, East and West, adults and children from the mess, what the Coen brothers love to talk about is the incomprehension between people. Understanding is inescapable of sadness and despair. Wondering if green has any special religious meaning and why there are elements of green in every scene.

A Serious Man quotes

  • Sy Ableman: Do you drink wine? Because this is an incredible bottle. This is not Mogen David. This is a - heh heh - a wine, Larry. A Bordeaux.

    Larry Gopnik: You know, Sy...

    Sy Ableman: Open it. Let it breathe. Ten minutes. Letting it breathe, so important.

    Larry Gopnik: Thanks, Sy, but I'm not...

    Sy Ableman: I insist! No reason for discomfort. I'll be uncomfortable if you don't take it. These are signs and tokens, Larry.

    Larry Gopnik: I'm just-I'm not ungrateful, I'm, I just don't know a lot about wine and, given our respective, you know...

    [Sy abruptly hugs him]

    Sy Ableman: S'okay. S'okay. We're gonna be fine.

  • Arlen Finkle: We, uh, we decide on Wednesday, so if there's anything you want to submit in support of your tenure application, we should have it by then. That's all.

    Larry Gopnik: Submit. What. What do you...

    Arlen Finkle: Well. Anything. Published work. Anything else you've done outside of the institution. Any work that we might not be aware of.

    Larry Gopnik: I haven't done anything.

    Arlen Finkle: Uh-huh.

    Larry Gopnik: I haven't published.

    Arlen Finkle: Uh-huh.

    Larry Gopnik: Are you still getting those letters?

    Arlen Finkle: Uh-huh.

    Larry Gopnik: Those anonymous...

    Arlen Finkle: Yes, I know. Yes.

    Larry Gopnik: Okay. Okay. Wednesday.

    Arlen Finkle: Okay. Don't worry. Doing nothing is not bad. Ipso facto.