redemption and redemption

Edmond 2022-03-25 09:01:23

How long will it take us to know that we are not of steel, just like the father in the film, the family business was going well at first, and then suddenly, an accident came, and the son unfortunately drowned, but he was like all the consultants. I started to analyze myself rationally, I shouldn’t blame the patient who asked him out that day, because it would be bad for the patient’s treatment, and I shouldn’t stop my work, because the grief will be vented with exercise, and it will slowly get better. He was like a man of steel, following the path of self-healing step by step. But after a while, he found that he couldn't listen to the patients, he was sick, and like his family, he felt powerless, and then he began to pay attention to himself.
Fuck it's "if the thief comes, the Lord will tell us", fuck it's work, fuck it's accident, he went to find the place where it happened, the shop where he bought diving gear, hoping to find something, but the result is the same as always Disappointing, even his unfortunate cancer patient began to optimistically tell him about his mentality, but he himself began to talk about "if they are all going to die, then what is the difference between a good mentality and a bad mentality ”, this is basically a taboo for a psychologist to persuade a terminally ill patient who is beginning to be optimistic to give up hope, but he expresses it so bluntly, and there are various contents and emotions hidden behind it, of course, also Including "I missed the opportunity to take care of my son because of you, and I let him die." However, he did not finally tell the patient whether this could be understood as professional ethics, and he would not take anger on innocent people.
And the last letter that came, slowly opened his heart, the visit of his son's past girlfriend, he began to pick up on himself again, he quit his job, because he wanted to heal himself first, and was accepting some After being reluctant to part with the patient who hated him, he took his wife, daughter, son's ex-girlfriend, and friends brought by his ex-girlfriend to drive around the city in the dark, and gradually came out.
Forgive me, as someone who is not rich enough to understand, I don't quite understand why he came out in the end, maybe it was the music that my son likes, or maybe it was the visit of my son's ex-girlfriend with her current boyfriend that made him feel that things were over It's gone, just like when I sometimes experience a baptism of bad life accidents, I can't tell what exactly made me come out.
The past is not completely gone, sometimes accompanied by a song, a scene will still be recalled, but after this, we all have to move forward, and pay attention to ourselves, when we are in trouble, it is difficult to resist to the end, the movie The son's ex-girlfriend is an exit. Although there are not so many coincidental exits in reality, such as me, I will be suffocated, and I even think it is unreasonable to rely on external forces to solve my own difficulties. However, this film Tell me, sometimes, be kind to yourself, let go, let go of those burdens, give yourself a chance to heal, and you will pass faster.
Don't be afraid of how your actions will affect others. For example, the father used to write a letter to his son's ex-girlfriend. From a rational point of view, he didn't tell the unfortunate cancer patient. Because of the subtle time difference, my son died like this, because we all It’s a human being, even a psychologist, we will shiver after getting wet in the heavy rain, we need to have proper support when we are sad, give us an exit, and we will not let ourselves down the rest of the way.

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  • Camylle 2022-03-19 09:01:11

    It's not an accusation against the movie, but it's too bland, so dull that the plot and atmosphere are weakened, and the characteristics of the shooting skills are difficult to detect. Especially compared with the later "Children", it is really not outstanding, the only impressive thing is It's this warm poster.

  • Jeffry 2022-03-19 09:01:11

    3.5 The deep interaction between reality and the past (fragments) forms a visual and perceptual illusion similar to "memory", inscriptions on father's delusions about "reversing time", mixed with a bowl of extremely bitter reality medicine - no one to guide How we deal with loss is like no one to guide us how to deal with new life, so we carefully test each other, measure the value of pain with tears, and when finally confronted with the most obvious self-deception, no one can bear to say it.