Marriage of red and white roses

Marcel 2022-03-25 09:01:14

When I watched "Day Yan", I also found "Beauty in the Day".
This seemingly contradictory woman, but I can understand her very well.
She worked as a prostitute during her husband's day at work. When her husband got off work, she was still the noble and elegant wife. Her husband is a doctor. In Western society, doctors are the highest occupation. Her husband is perfect and unmistakable, gentle, kind, capable, and most importantly, loves her. Whether it's a fake or a representation of the real heart, this is a skill.
Her life lacks fun, and she's not the same as the woman in "Day Yan". Some are looking for love, some are looking for balance, some are looking for excitement. She is the latter. I am not married, and I have a lot of aspirations for marriage. I'm afraid I can't marry someone I like, and I'm afraid I can marry someone I like. How should a person choose the other half who exists as a marriage. Personal views are definitely different. I'm also a contradictory person, swaying, I thought, I'm looking for someone I love so much, he may not love me as much as I love him, but because I love him, anything I do for him, I will feel happy. I had a seven-year injury, and later, I was afraid to choose someone who I liked more than he liked me. I just want to find someone who loves me so much, so that no matter what I do, I don't seem to have to think too much. There will always be someone standing in front of me. During that time, I will often think of one person. When I called Miss Yang, I said, he loves me so much, he loved me for a whole youth, from a teenager to an adult, for 9 years, until I grew up, I began to admire him. However, later, he got married. The night before the wedding, he called me, and I still firmly told him that I still like the person I like very much. Later, he ran away from marriage. A few days later, people found him, and I got caught up in it and became a well-known person in their circle. He was still married, with the girl he didn't like. Since then, I have never been contacted again. At that time, I told Miss Yang that in this life, there may be no one who loves me so hard. Miss Yang laughed at me and said that if your life is so long, you will meet someone who likes you more.
However, later, when I think of the future and my Mr. Unknown, I don't know whether to choose what I like or what I like. It seems that no matter what I choose, marriage cannot be presented to me perfectly. When I watched "Day Yan", I had a lot of insights, and I also began to have many strange ideas. So many people can't make themselves happy. Until we meet, we will understand the meaning of choice.
Everyone lives in their own heart, whether to obey their own heart or succumb to morality. It's a personal choice. However, I am willing to succumb to morality, but when morality cannot be maintained, I bravely follow my heart.

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  • Monsieur Adolphe: [singing] I like ham and sausage, I like ham when it's good, But I like even more a nice pair of thighs.

  • Monsieur Adolphe: It wasn't cold enough. Champagne over 46 degrees taste like tea.

    Madame Anais: Sorry. If I'd known, I'd have put it in the fridge.

    Monsieur Adolphe: You knew I was coming.

    Madame Anais: But not that Belle de jour was.

    Monsieur Adolphe: [toast] To the person I care most about - - me!

    Madame Anais: And to Belle de jour.