Sweet Life

Linwood 2022-03-26 09:01:14

First time watching a Bergman film. Because it is the topic of marriage and chatter movies that I am concerned about. But by the second half hour of the film, I was really drowsy.
The seemingly perfect and happy married life is often full of holes, but these undercurrents are unknown. Take the lyrics in the undercurrent of super love Yaoming: There is no reason, there can be no undercurrent in love. Admittedly, this is not a pessimistic tone.
So the details are true, and Liv Uman has the same problems her firm's clients have: decent jobs, gracious husbands, vacation cabins and lovely children, and what's there to complain about? They are not crazy, the marriage is coming to an end in the undercurrent, and what is needed is just an opportunity to change.
So when John met Paula, everything changed. Marianne nearly breaks down as John vividly describes his encounter with Paula. Most of us will experience cruelty once or several times. The person you love becomes strange and unrecognizable at a certain moment. He can't wait to escape from the world with you. The calm and rational conversation is even more maddening, telling you the cruel truth, but you as a victim do not know it. You've played a role that makes you crumble and shame yourself. The light and joy in John's eyes as he thinks back is truly heart-wrenching.
John rebuked Marianne: I know what you're thinking? You're thinking God, what's going on here? My parents, my kids, my friends know all this, what should I do?
Love makes us meet each other, but also makes us hurt each other. We all get carried away at some point and hurt someone who loves you cruelly and beyond measure. These are really unforgivable.
The long-term estrangement and the fading of passion began to make John long for Marian's body and soul, and the mutual escape was returned in an almost cheating scene.
In the end, what should the understanding of each other's marriage be? It is nothing more than an intimtate relationship, and mutual comfort is actually more difficult than desire.
I was still young, and I didn’t dare to run away from the essence of marriage. I could only feel it with my intuition. The worst scene is just that the friends of the John Mariannes are just scolding each other, "I'd rather sleep with a male prostitute to wipe away the disgusting traces you left in my vagina". The sadness of marriage is just that!

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Scenes from a Marriage quotes

  • Johan: You need to put a lot of effort into not caring.

  • Marianne: We're pitiful, self-indulgent cowards that can't connect with reality and are ashamed of ourselves.