Love is thicker than water, self-awareness

Reva 2022-03-24 09:03:16


I can't remember how many people I have told and recommended this movie to, but I brushed it again today. Tears were swirling in my eyes, and in the end, the tears flowed into rivers.

Because I know the development of the whole story, I read it more carefully, and there are more and more surprises. The first step by step arrangement, more and more can feel the director's meticulous and thoughtful.
Not to mention the unsettled stories and emotional developments, the director's caring even seems premeditated. When the characters in the play are emotional, we can't see the changes in the protagonist's facial expressions, only empty shots and Piano soundtrack. Towards the end, I thought the camera would be for Qing Duo and Lian Duo's mother, but it was a fixed camera.

This sensational method is not ordinary clever.
After the two exchanged sons, many of them began to accept him from the heart through participating in Liu Qing's game. At this time, Lu said that he liked Liu Qing more and more, and felt very sorry for Qing Duo, as if he betrayed him. Yeah, six years of parenting. How to say forget it.
The next logical thing is that the father's psychological changes. At first, he found roses made by Qing Duo on the sofa, which reminded him of the warmth he once had. This is the initial foreshadowing, and then comes the small climax. When I took a photo of my own son with a camera, I accidentally discovered evidence that Qing Duo loves himself. With so many indecent photos taken secretly, how much do you love your cold father? (It can be seen that people are born cheap, who It's not good for you, but who do you care about? It's the lyrics "What you can't get will always be disturbed"), a lot of emotions finally came up, I have to say that Masaharu Fukuyama's acting skills are really good, what a slender expression, facial expressions, that Just a precision, it feels like one's conscience has come back.
The final climax is a lot of chasing dramas. An adult can't catch up with a child. The director asks the robot father to return to an awakened father step by step. This process uses a chase and confession scene. He nagging like a mother-in-law, probably means my son, I was wrong, please forgive me, you candidly took pictures of me sleeping, you made roses for me, you taught me a lesson, and then the two roads crossed , the two hearts exchanged, many squatted down, gave up all human arrogance and non-stop pursuit of excellence, humility, and equality with children, followed by the most intimate physical contact - hug, now silence is better than sound, a thousand words Thousands of words turned into expressions of love.

Many psychological changes:
In the beginning, he was a robot fighter in a steel-reinforced forest. He gave up all his vacation time, worked overtime on weekends, and was reluctant to accompany his son to his favorite camping and kite flying. The education of the child is left to the mother alone. He didn't allow his son, who didn't win the game, to accept defeat willingly. He also doesn't allow his son to not be excellent, whether talented or not.
Later, after meeting the Saimu family, he was compared as a father. He could make money, but he had no time to play with his son and repair toys for his son. Of course he was frustrated.
Although he is relatively cold to his father, he still recognizes him in his heart. He told others what his father said. When Zhaimu asked him to accompany Liuqing to fly a kite by the river, he unconsciously said "My father when I was young...", Zhaimu said, "You don't have to be like your father". He was silent now.
When he learned how deep his son's love was for him, his heart became soft and warm, as a person with a conscience and love. When he saw the relationship between Miyazaki's mother and son, he was touched by the situation, thinking of his stepmother, and called her late at night to apologize. She said that she forgot, and the answer was really good.
When he finally squatted down and hugged his son, he gave up all face and everything, just a loving and grateful father who respected and accepted his child.
Let’s write so much about the psychological changes of male pig’s feet. It’s really dry, and I’m not very good at it.

"Like Father Like Son" not only photographed various father-son relationships, such as many fathers, many, Saiki, many fathers, Saiki's father-in-law, Miyazaki's husband (although only one side is shown). I also photographed many mothers, Midori, Yukari, Yukari's mother, many stepmothers, Miyazaki. Although some roles are small, they are indispensable. Many are very well played.

Family dramas generally have family education methods. The parenting method of many families is that the father earns money outside and is raised by the mother, but it can still be seen that their family's education for children is too meticulous, and it is impossible to touch them. Love for children is like clothes. The small stitches on it are as fine and dense, and sometimes this kind of love can make people breathless. The Zhaimu family's upbringing is more like a free-range family. The father can play with the children without any air, and the mother is gentle and caring, taking care of the psychological needs of each child. It is a model family of parents, although their family operates electrical appliances. , so what, children growing up in such a family must be mentally healthy, with love, responsibility and commitment.

Alright, the humiliation is over. I should get myself a bowl of noodles. Then go for a run.
Also, sorry for spoilers.
This movie, if you like it or not, just be happy.
This is certainly not the end of this article.


I couldn't help but think of the story of this "little wave":
a small wave was swimming happily in the sea, pushing forward, and then it suddenly saw a wave ahead hit a rock hard , turned into countless broken bubbles, it was frightened and immediately lost, when a wave passed by and asked why it was so depressed, it said: "Look, that is our end! We will eventually be shattered and disappear. Obliterated!" The wave beside him smiled and said, "Don't forget, you are part of the sea!"
As for what this story is about, you still need to figure it out yourself.

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