Precisely because they are no longer young, they have seen too many hard-to-find or hard-to-seek situations, and after a selective age, they express their goodwill and joy clearly.
People's sighs and expectations for life in middle age are small sparks of desire and hope hidden under the seemingly calm.
The reason why middle-aged is easy to get into trouble is because of embarrassing age. It is not like when you are young, everything is opening to yourself, everything is full of hope and new possibilities, hormones and self-confidence are conspiring every day; and it is not like the certainty and transparency of old age, facing an inevitable The coming downfall and the end are nothing but waiting. Middle-aged is stuck in the middle, and every day's self-satisfaction seems too frivolous, childish and pompous, and if he obeys his fate, he will become a kind of old-fashioned and unwilling to himself.
When you get along with people, you will always see the good aspects first, because those parts are shiny and destined to be eye-catching, but after the interaction deepens, those dark matter begin to appear, and those little vices that you didn’t care about before and can be tolerated are all. magnified. Then boredom appeared, and the two became more and more indifferent. One of the side effects of an intimate relationship is a complete relaxation of one's behavior and language. Violence, ridicule, and indifference become more frequent, and a relationship begins to go bad. This film fully presents the parabola and the whole process of a couple's relationship with the new relationship between the hero and heroine. This process is a universal sample. At the same time, this relationship is almost a replica of the direction of their respective previous marriages. Thus, a sense of absurdity is created. Almost all relationships will end in a similar way, flat, indifferent, bored or even broken, so is there any meaning to a new relationship? The director of the film clearly had no intention of giving the kind of brutal truth that a pure art film would provide, but instead gave a warm and mundane answer. Because of the excitement and beauty of the process, people are willing to step into the same river again, even if they know that the end is dark and boundless. Although this is a bowl of cheap chicken soup for the soul, it is the real situation in reality.
Don't try to find out about his past from others, let alone from his ex-wife. Treat him as a brand new person, and you have to discover everything about him, good or bad, you need to see for yourself.
Don't ask about the past when you meet someone, don't ask about the future when you love someone.
Passionate on the outside and lonely on the inside.
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