Almodovar said: "'All About My Mother' shows a woman's ability to endure pain. A woman does not have to be a professional actress to lie, act, and act very well. Men and women There is the same loneliness and pain, but the women's reaction to it is much more dramatic and thrilling. In this sense, men do seem to be a little less than women.
" I saw all kinds of crying girls in the school. They were young, thin and uninvolved. A tear fell like a star in the sky.
I have not experienced the ups and downs of the women in the film. But in the face of all the misfortunes in life, most women do this all the time, crying and then forgiving. Sometimes tears are just tears, but they are more dramatic from the heart to face the changes in the world, and have no other intentions. At this point, I don't think it's necessary to expect male acceptance and understanding.
I have read too many words about how women should make their hearts strong, cold and self-aware, calm and introverted. In my opinion, I don't need to care about them. Women are better at escaping, like Manuela's several shuttles between Madrid and Barcelona, like Nina's final farewell, like a girl who immersed herself in drama to forget her departure. Tears accompanied the sleepless night, and the chandeliers on the ceiling creaked harshly. I don't think it's weakness, I just need more time to deal with everything, to gently rub myself into the cracks of the years in order to survive.
When Ayue learned that Yanmi and Nina were about to die together, Mario was still obsessed with the plot of getting a physical love, which was too sharp and too sensitive. How did Almodovar understand the difference between the sexes in such a nuanced way. Women are too obsessed with emotions and are therefore vulnerable to injury. It is still possible to take off the danxi of a gentleman, but it is impossible to take off the danxi of a woman. This sentence, handed down from the people thousands of years ago, is still resonant to this day. I remember seeing a girl who was crying heart-to-heart in the bathroom once, and the crying accompanied by the sound of running water made my heart panic. Before that, I thought I was going to rush up and yell, don't cry, that scum doesn't deserve this! But at that time I was only silent.
Silence should be the gentlest response to tears.
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