Who once said that guilt is the longest way to love someone

Janice 2022-03-26 09:01:05

I want to say that a film with this kind of rhythm will usually be abandoned by me halfway through, but it just makes me feel that three hours pass too fast, which to a certain extent shows that it is really good.
First of all, the pull-up movie itself appeals to me, regardless of whether I support gay love or not, these kinds of movies are usually sensually beautiful. Secondly, how could I miss Ms. Leia's name on the cast list.
So, I watched.

……………… ok, the dividing line is here………………………………

Let's talk about the most memorable scene first. It was the scene where Ah'Dai and his colleague, the male teacher, kissed passionately in the car. Emma found out that the two were arguing in the room, and finally Ah'Dai was kicked out of the house. Looking at other film reviews, it can be seen that everyone is still based on the factor of instinctive sympathy for the weak. A large area of ​​the scale is turned to Ah'Dai, and they feel that she is pitiful and that she loves her so deeply. But, I want to say, in love, isn't loyalty the first priority? Emma can ask her a series of questions so confidently after Ah'Dai entered the door, she must have seen all the things she shouldn't have seen, right? If you are lucky, if you have to blame something, then blame the small light in the male teacher's car that automatically turns on after parking. It seems that the director is conveying that Emma has seen it. And Ah'Dai got out of the car and entered the wrong door, then came out, crossed the road, and finally entered the real door. The arrangement of this location is obviously to show that Emma, ​​who was in the opposite room of the wrong house at that time, had already seen the wet kiss between the two at the window at that moment. OK, continue. What Ah'Dai did after entering the door, I can only say that she is really a winless little girl. Emma got straight to the point and asked her directly, "Did someone bring you back?" I want to say that Emma's question seems to be asked with her mouth, but it is actually asked with her sharp eyes. Ah'Dai should admit it directly and honestly when he sees this. Wrong, you should directly use the little girl's exclusive overwhelm to talk about her loneliness and a momentary slip, and maybe it can soften Emma's almost bursting heart, rather than quibble and quibble. If you saw your lover's infidelity with your own eyes, but she still stubbornly argues, can you still calm down? Ah'Dai's behavior at the moment is obviously adding fuel to the fire, and it can be seen from the side that she is indeed a simple little girl, clumsily trying to cover up, and then clumsily trying to explain, but all of this makes her take the opposite route. The dots irritated Emma completely. After all, at the moment, Emma is the one facing the betrayal.

OK, let's talk about what I think is the real reason for Emma's final rage in this segment. For Les, seeing his partner find a man to replace him is a naked jab at their bottom line. If what Emma sees is what Ah'Dai is like with a woman, then it's just pure cheating. And what Emma saw that stuck into Ah'Dai's two sexy thick lips at that moment was a man's mouth. I think this was finally unbearable, and it was the reason that finally made Emma completely angry. After all, it is not easy to find the same kind in a non-mainstream world. In addition, one of the two can always admit it generously, while the other is always dodging, even though Emma's eyes, actions, and personality are all revealed. It's an indestructible ruthlessness and rationality, and at this point she's all vulnerable, inferior, and wary. Ah'Dai's betrayal made Emma feel that she was denied and stabbed, and finally chose to use verbal violence and small physical violence to the extreme. In fact, before this happened, everyone could see that Emma was gentle to Ah Dai, and was endlessly gentle.

I read a lot of film reviews before, all of which are all kinds of class theories and gap theories. I want to say that there is no gap between who is with whom. It can only be said that the gap is broad, and the class gap is only a branch of the gap, even if you find it. Those of the same class, the right match, and like-minded people, there must be some differences in living habits like I love clean, but you don’t like bathing, and I love to go out and play, but you’re dead. . Therefore, it is a bit unobjective to take the difference as a matter of fact.

The contradiction between Dumb and Emma is still from love itself. Ah'Dai couldn't keep up with Emma's pace. What he needed to do was to either work hard to follow, or the two of them could work out a balanced state. In one scene, Emma was talking on the phone with a character who was probably a brokerage company. The call was very unpleasant. Emma spoke loudly on the phone several times. As for Ah'Dai, Emma kept interrupting her when she was talking on the phone and asked her if she wanted something to eat. When Emma complained to her, she still insisted on asking her again if she wanted to eat bread dipped in butter. To be honest, when I saw this I am sweating. Thinking back to the way Ah'Dai was at a loss and panic during the whole PARTY day, this feeling of powerlessness that couldn't be integrated really made Ah'Dai feel breathless. But who can do with love, poor Ah'Dai, even if he is forced to suffocate by this sense of helplessness, he still relies on pure love in his heart to breathe. Do you think Dumb was jealous when she saw Emma and Liz chatting and laughing together? Needless to say, I must be jealous to death. Some jealousy will make people catch up, provided that they know that there is a possibility of catching up, but some jealousy can only make themselves deeper and deeper in inferiority complex. To a certain extent, it was Ah'Dai who pulled herself away from Emma's life, and she began to question herself, whether she could fit in with her lover spiritually, and whether she was in addition to taking care of her lover's daily life. Useless. Slowly, when she saw and believed that someone else became her lover's soulmate (the boundary here is locked when Dumb heard Emma from the answering machine that she was with Liz and would be back later), She was utterly desperate. She chose to pass the loneliness with others, to pass the loneliness that was piled up by jealousy, jealousy, loss, and gradually lost sense of security. However, she should know that when she finally failed to persuade herself and caught the mouth that was brought up just to fill her lonely mouth, the tragedy that followed was already there.

So one mistake turned into an eternal hatred. When Ah'Dai began to get used to this kind of life one by one, he was finally discovered by Emma. Back to the scene of the quarrel mentioned above. Judging from Emma's reaction, her anger is real, at least I didn't understand at all what other people commented on Dumb's cheating that made the strong Emma feel very shameless. In love, the other's infidelity, the other's betrayal, must bring a hysteria, which is a normal reaction. In fact, if you are careful, you will find that Emma is a principled person. One, she went to look for her at Ah'Dai school, and painted Ah'Dai's portrait on the grass bench by the river. When they were about to part, the two looked at each other affectionately, and the hormones told them that it was time to kiss, but Emma persuaded herself to stop it, but she just lightly I kissed Ah'Dai's face lightly, not to say that Emma didn't like Ah'Dai very much at that time, but to speculate from the plot that she hadn't broken up with Sabine yet, she couldn't do such a thing. Second, the meeting in the cafe after the two broke up, Ah'Dai tried to physically pull Emma back, but Emma still persuaded herself and said "I'm with someone else". Both scenes show that Emma's way of doing things is to end a segment and start another, and it's almost certain that nothing happened to Emma and Liz that night on the answering machine. Besides, if you are more careful, you will find that Emma also regards Dumb as a treasure and really loves her. 1. On the answering machine, Emma said that she and Liz wanted to talk about the work and would be back later, but she still did not forget to add a sentence "if you want me, call me", which means that I am busy no matter how busy I am. , there is definitely time for you. 2. After the two broke up, they met in a cafe. Emma cried and said affectionately, "My tenderness will always be reserved for you, forever and ever." People with kind thoughts, please I believe this is Emma's truth. To sum up, Emma may have more girlfriends, but she is serious and serious in every paragraph. So in the face of Ah'Dai's betrayal, she went crazy, she didn't keep her mouth shut, she was cruel, and she drove Ah'Dai away. But this is the instinctive reaction that love brings to people.

After the two separated, there was no entanglement or procrastination.
There is no repetition of how Emma calmed down and let go.
I only acted as Ah'Dai no matter where, as long as I think of Emma, ​​I can "cry like that".

Who ever said that guilt is the longest way to love someone.

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Blue Is the Warmest Colour quotes

  • Emma: You still need some practice.

    Adèle: I'll give it all I've got.

  • Emma: Why are you lying?

    Adèle: I'm not lying.

    Emma: Then why are you crying?

    Adèle: I'm not crying.