"Desire and Wisdom": All girls who are about to marry should think about it

Krystal 2022-11-15 13:26:11

This film with a strong Indian style cannot be regarded as an erotic film, because its backbone is not eroticism, but an exploration of the emotional world of men and women.

Let's first look at the main character relationships of the whole film: Tara & Maya, Tara & Raj, Maya & Raj, Raj & Kumar, Maya & Kumar.

Tara & Maya: Growing up together, in a master-servant relationship, Maya can only wear Tara's clothes. Maya sings and dances better than Tara since she was a child. From Tara's expression, she is actually a little unhappy, which can be said to be jealous; and Maya does not succumb to the clothes that Tara can only wear, and does not succumb to her servants. her identity, her nanny told her "this is life", but she wants to control her own life. Until Raj and Tara were about to get married, the conflict between the two finally intensified. When Raj married Tara, Maya and Raj looked at each other, Tara humiliated Maya in public, and Maya gave her first time to Raj. When the incident happened, Maya was kicked out of the palace. But then by chance, Raj found Maya and asked her to be his concubine. Tara and Maya became his wife and concubine. This relationship is very delicate. , so that Tara hates Maya very much, but after Maya rescues Tara who tried to commit suicide, after telling her that she loves Kumar, the two are like friends again.

This is the typical delicate feeling between women, you can be good, but I am better than you. It is said that women's jealousy is terrible. Both Tara and Maya want to be better than each other, but the gap in identities makes Maya's idea difficult to realize, so they have to "return to others in their own way" first. In the eyes of a woman, the husband can only be his own, and there can be no third person between him and her husband, so seeing Raj's love for Maya, Tara is very painful and hates Maya very much, what she has is only The status of the queen is only, but she can't get Raj's love. The tension and conflict between the two eased when Tara learned that Maya loved Kumar.

Tara & Raj: Political marriage, Raj minds Tara's past and doesn't love her, but Tara falls in love with Raj. Raj's bestiality made him addicted to women's sex and political affairs. Tara was also very disappointed with such Raj, so after provoking his sexual desire, he walked away.

Some people say that men are fascinated. In short, this stems from the animal nature of animals, but that is just sex. Animals' sexual behavior is to reproduce offspring. When it comes to human beings, the word "desire" is added. Desire, people have seven emotions and six desires , regardless of men or women, so in the film we see that girls must learn how to serve men and learn various positions after they become adults. Because of the different historical backgrounds, in India, these are regarded as very natural, not like we Chinese will be secretive and difficult to talk about.

Maya & Raj: The relationship between husband and wife, Maya only slept with Raj because of the injustice at first, but Raj fell in love with her, and Tara's life changed a lot; Raj was after that time. In love with Maya.

This made me think of "love because of sex" and "sex because of love", these two are different, "love because of sex" is the catharsis of desire, from desire to emotion, "sex because of love" It is the catharsis of emotion, and the desire is born from emotion. Obviously, Raj fell in love with Maya "because of sex", and Maya and Kumar were in love with each other "sex because of love", which is also doomed to the tragedy of Maya and Kumar.

Raj & Kumar: Good buddies, but such feelings changed after Raj saw the Maya carved by Kumar and found Maya. Kumar realizes that he has fallen in love with Maya, but Maya has become Raj's concubine, and the two brothers have become rivals. The two sometimes fight because there is always a winner or loser. When Raj found out that Kumar was having a tryst with Maya and that Maya was in love with Kumar, he ordered Kumar to be killed.

Raj killed Kumar. This is a man's possessiveness towards women. He doesn't allow his woman to fall in love with other men, not to mention his own woman falls in love with his good buddy. The so-called "friend's wife cannot be deceived" , Although Maya is only Raj's concubine, a man cannot tolerate a woman's betrayal of himself, nor can he tolerate a buddy stealing his woman's heart. But love is involuntary, and everything was doomed when Raj saw the statue.

Maya & Kumar: They are in love with each other, but at first Kumar found that she was full of Maya when she was working, so she rejected Maya's concern, but at this time Maya had fallen in love with Kumar. It was not until Maya became Raj's concubine that Kumar realized that she was in love with Maya. But it was so late, even if Maya's heart was won back, the love tragedy between the two was destined to be inescapable.

In a relationship, hesitation is a very lethal knife. It will make you lose the person you originally loved the most. Similar examples are not uncommon, but many times this is fate. If you miss this person, you can no longer be attached to him/ Otherwise, she will lose more and be hurt more deeply. The original "short pain" has become "long pain", which will make you fall into the abyss.

Feelings and desires, no one can tell, but we can understand and understand the psychology of men and women. After watching this movie, I think all girls who are about to marry should think about it, whether in love or in marriage, what kind of things can happen, and how to deal with similar things. As a girl, no matter what happens, you have to be rational, and you will lose everything. No one can always make the right choice, but at least we have to figure out how to choose as much as possible, and try not to let emotions and desires get overwhelmed. It may be difficult, but there is a way, when we are surrounded by certain emotions. , Don't make a decision, wait until you calm down and think about it, because if you make a decision, you will have to bear the consequences.

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Kama Sutra: A Tale of Love quotes

  • Maya: [to Jai] You were the one that talked about love all the time. And now it's facing you, and you run from it.

  • Maya: I loved being with him. I would have done anything just to be with him.

    Teacher of the Kama Sutra: What kind of love are you talking about? Real love? If you're looking for real love, you've chosen the hardest task of all, the work for which all other work is but preparation.

    Maya: But I was ready. I wanted to give myself to him.

    Teacher of the Kama Sutra: Love does not mean surrendering, "losing yourself". It is a call to ripen. Don't look for straight lines, Maya. Life is never like that.