But put aside the emotional impulse at the beginning, think rationally, of course, emma has loved Adele. But this kind of love is very different from Adele's love for her. Emma is obviously a master of love, walking among all kinds of women, and is very familiar with it. When she met a high school student like Adele who seemed overwhelmed in a bar, she was attracted by her difference. She was young and immature. Although she only knew Picasso and didn't understand what existentialism was, all this made her as an artist. Emma feels fresh and she gets a sense of control as a relationship facilitator. And emma to Adele is to rely on all the feelings. She loves emma without hesitation, and this love is her whole world. But emma is not. She believes in Sartre's philosophy since high school. She understands that only she can choose her own life. Her purpose is clear, and love is not a necessity of her life. So when the enthusiasm faded, Adele felt lonely, because emma gave more love to artistic creation.
In a relationship, it is not whoever pays more is the weaker, but whoever values it more, who is more dependent on the relationship, is the weaker. Obviously Adele is that once she is the weak one in love, she is destined to be passive and the one who gets hurt the most at the end.
The tragedy of the weak is that she is willing to be a weak, but has no heart to change. Adele didn't know what she wanted. She doesn't understand art theory and doesn't want to know about it. When she's lonely, she goes on dates with other men. Saying that she is too stupid or too simple, she is completely unaware of her position in emma's life, there is no purpose, everything follows instinct.
Now I don't feel sorry for Adele anymore, because from the beginning they were people from different worlds, and neither of them wanted to enter the other's world, so feelings without foundation are fragile. Emma is like a shooting star in Adele's life. After a short period of warmth, it leaves a broken sense of loneliness, but it is enough to always remember the beauty when it bloomed in memory.
Maybe we can learn something from the movie and bring it into our own life. Don't be willing to be emotionally weak forever, waiting for the fate of being eliminated. There are many things in life that can fill the void in your heart. Love is not the only one. Only when you learn to get along well with yourself can you love others. Life is not a fairy tale, and sometimes love is really cruel.
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