That's why Sarah was so traumatized. At the beginning of the film, Sarah and her younger brother were not seen, and they first heard their cheerful laughter like silver bells, which made people completely unaware that it was laughter in the context of war. War is always heavy, but simple children don't know the cruelty and evil of war, they let out a wanton and relaxed and happy laughter like living in the best times. There was a lot of smoke outside the window, but from the child's point of view, it had nothing to do with me, and the play on the bed was still a lot of fun. No matter how cruel the war, their laughter always reminds people of good things and yearning. And this sets off the war even more sinful. At this time, they still don't understand that the war doesn't have anything to do with me outside the home. Everyone is a product of history, and everyone grows with the traces of history. Everyone who has experienced war has to drag history on his body. of heavy. They are too young to understand this, let alone make any mental preparations for the coming harm.
So when Sarah saw the woman falling from the sky, she could only open her terrified eyes, her eyes were full of sudden fear. So when Sarah was pushed and shoved into the van carrying the Jews, she could only watch in horror what was going on around her without saying a word. So when Sarah arrived at the concentration camp, her body also reacted very strongly, saying in a weak voice that she was not feeling well and seeking comfort from her parents. So when Sarah was knocked down by a sudden jet of water and forced to separate from her mother, she just curled up and lay on the ground, leaning against the ground to keep herself warm, instead of running away. All of this happened too suddenly. Facing the fear of her head covering her face, she had lost the ability to react at all. She could only dilate her pupils and widen her frightened eyes, letting the harm she had never faced hit her face. Because Sarah had never encountered such a scenario, had never encountered or heard of it in real life, it could not have happened in her life experience, and she had never learned how to deal with it. In addition to basic physiological responses that do not need to be learned, many human responses are reflexes built up through acquired learning. Children have many compulsory courses, such as learning to dress and eat by themselves, such as learning how to get along with family and friends, but they have not learned how to deal with war and death. Therefore, when encountering these emergencies, he didn't know how to deal with them at all, and he could only accept the incessant injuries to his face at a loss.
Although war has brought a child to face death, the trauma of witnessing the death of an outsider is incomparable to that of a loved one, let alone the death of a loved one caused by one's own hands. In fact, I have been wondering whether it was Sarah's fault for my brother's death, and whether my brother was killed by Sarah. I've always felt that Sarah couldn't actually be blamed for her brother's death, because Sarah kept her brother in the closet to protect him. Under the circumstances at the time, hiding her younger brother was the best protection Sarah could give. Not only would the soldiers not take her younger brother away, but also to avoid psychological fear and harm to her younger brother on the grounds of games. But in the end, it was precisely this behavior that directly led to the death of the younger brother. What if there is no war? What if the soldier could let her go earlier so she could open the closet earlier? It is possible that such a tragedy would not happen. So is it Sarah's fault for her brother's death? I've always wanted to help her justify and help her tell herself that your brother's tragedy was not caused by you.
But this kind of persuasion just shows the attitude of an outsider. The reason why I can investigate who caused this tragedy is because I am an outsider, I have not yet become Sarah, and I have not understood her with empathy. As Sarah, she may never be able to analyze this matter so calmly and objectively. She can only narrowly realize that her brother was suffocated in the closet, and that she personally locked him in the closet, He killed his brother himself. She would never be able to forgive herself, and she would never be able to look at this incident calmly. Sarah will never forget the tragic condition of her younger brother that she saw the moment she opened the cupboard. It was a loved one. Those who haven't experienced the pain and heartbreak will definitely not be able to understand it. It's more painful than we can imagine. That moment flashed back over and over in Sarah's mind, and Sarah could only live day and night in painful memories and self-blame of this incident. Not just because you can't forget, but because you can't forgive yourself. And she was taken out by the new house after seeing the tragic condition of her younger brother. After suffering a trauma that could not be ignored, she immediately stayed away from the source of the trauma. This seemed to be protected, but it deepened the damage to Sarah. Because of this, a huge sense of unfinishedness will hold people tightly. In front of the sudden sadness and fright, before she could have a slight emotional change, she was immediately placed in a new field, the sudden sadness and fright were frozen, and all the psychological energy was fixed at that moment. , there has never been some kind of ritual declaring that she should start a new life and focus on other things.
She could actually have had a good life if nothing had happened. I saw her bravely stand up and say that her brother and father were not at home, when she responsibly placed her brother to play hide-and-seek with him, when she reached out to the soldiers to shake hands, and when she used the tiny When her voice was making meticulous arrangements, she saw her brave, strong, intelligent, witty, courageous, and loving qualities. She was also loved later, the old couple loved her like their own children, and her husband loved her so much, but the trauma had made her an old person. She couldn't see the love and beauty after the traumatic event, and her life had stopped at the moment she opened the closet. The age is growing, but her life has never taken a new step forward.
The greatest tragedy is to cut off all possibilities. Sarah is someone who has cut off all possibilities, because from the moment she saw her brother's life come to an abrupt end, her life came to a standstill. And the biggest trauma, apart from the pain of the heart pulling away, is not being able to see anything new.
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