Let's say you have a puppy and you are very close. One day you went out of the house and asked others to take care of it. This family took care of the dog in every possible way, even better than yours. So when you come back, you find that your dog, who has been with you for nine years, doesn't want to leave with you. At this point you will be angry and unwilling.
This is true for dogs, not to mention for a handsome, smart guy of the opposite sex who has known you for years. But you have to realize that like the attitude towards the dog, it may not be love, it may just be an exclusive mentality, or a habit.
Conversely, if you are the dog, you were originally your owner’s favorite, but one day your owner has a cat, and he likes the cat more than you, and you will be sad and unwilling. crazy jealous, but it's probably not love either, just a dependency or a fear of insecurity.
You are not reconciled, you want to take back the lost happiness (exclusive desire, habit, dependence, security, or the love you thought), his fiancee is so innocent, you have confidence. You used a lot of careful thinking, and you finally made a confession, but before the other party said anything, your fiancée saw it, and as a result, there was a scene where you chased him, he chased his fiancée, and no one chased you.
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Even if it's not dependence, when the person you love and the person you believe loves you is about to get married, you suddenly feel that you I love him so much that I have to get him back. But what have you done? You know very well that if you confessed to him when you were both single, he specified that he would not refuse, because when you said that you were engaged, the other party also expressed her considerable jealousy.
Wait, since he was jealous too, why didn't he take the initiative to confess to the lady like a gentleman? Then you have to look at your character.
Many men have seen the kind of girls who make themselves very tempted but will never confess rashly. They are smart and strong, which makes men afraid of being despised and trampled on, and she will not take the initiative to confess others when she is proud, so this girl even has many admirers. In the end, it is especially easy to miss the most suitable one and be left. It's unfortunate that you find out that you are one of those girls, so you feel like you have to throw away your self-esteem and make an effort for your own happiness.
And now that he has a better option, and is still a few hours away from getting married, what's the point of your confession? Even if he loves you as much as he loves his fiancée, the fiancée has one more responsibility.
No matter how unwilling you are, you can only let it go. You let them get married.
At this time, you hear people in the secular world (usually there is such a phenomenon in China) discussing you:
she is 28, and she is crazy, how good they are, she is only 20, youthful, good-natured, and at home Also very rich, a man knows how to choose.
You feel bad again, you think if you got married early, maybe he would be so desperate and jealous and come to the wedding to take you away. Because you are a couple made in heaven. To make you swallow it, unless you can also find a groom as good as his bride, but you realize that as you get older, it's getting harder and harder, almost impossible.
So, you couldn't help but fantasize like Zhou Zhiruo, "Even if you are married and have babies, after ten or eight years, you will only think about me, and you will only be reluctant to give up on me, that's enough."
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