Pleasures in life need to be controlled in order to prevent extreme happiness from giving rise to sadness

Mercedes 2022-03-23 09:02:35

Why Gia went down the road of self-destruction, I think it boils down to her premature fame and inability to make peace with emptiness and pain.
There will be a period in people's life when they are extremely rebellious, unable to manipulate themselves, cynical, and especially yearning for something, either the ultimate beauty or the ultimate ugliness, about 20 is almost this age group. After this age has passed, the situation will be much better, but loneliness and emptiness will always be accompanied by human figures and shadows. Throughout life, there is no way to get rid of them, and we can only learn to live in peace with them.
This world is a world of mutual growth and mutual restraint, and extremes will reverse. DU products, love, money, sex, God made it exist, in fact, they are all necessary, and they were originally synonymous with beauty. Don’t say, DU products are not. When it first appeared, it was used as a painkiller. Because people can't bear boredom and emptiness, they will pursue such things too vigorously, so they go to suffering. Some people have a chance to turn back, and some people never have a chance, such as Gia. If you don't want that kind of extreme pain, then you need to be restrained in life. For example, when you want to let go of your stomach and overeat, take it easy, and things will taste better. When you are attracted by a book and cannot stop, slow down and read again. When you want to express too much love for a person, take a moment to think about whether it is so exaggerated. Even if you really want to indulge, think about it rationally, whether this indulgence will bring you great harm, and then continue.
There is also a noteworthy point in the movie, that is, Gia has been pursuing true and pure love and affection. She hopes that the people around her will love her as much as she loves them, but she feels that they gave her. Love is not so extreme and selfless, so she can only rely more on drugs. In fact, this problem is also the problem that everything mentioned above should not be too extreme. There is indeed family, friendship and love between people, but this is really not eternal, it is limited. You can't expect someone to love you more than his life, even your parents.
It is not that difficult to understand the above principles. However, after you fully understand it, you will feel that there is no love in life, because no one is irreplaceable. Even if you're irreplaceable, it's because he needs you, not because you are you. Sad but very realistic.
Life is like this, it's just a game and a dream, I just hope it won't be a nightmare, so it is very important to try to maintain a peaceful state of mind. Do what you can, and be content. Don't be extravagant, don't be demanding, just go with the flow, maybe it's the best mentality to be a person!

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Gia quotes

  • Wilhemina Cooper: You practically gave my receptionist a coronary.

  • Linda: I have a boyfriend.

    Gia Carangi: [shrugs] So?

    Linda: [incredulous] SO?

    Gia Carangi: Yeah, so?

    Linda: So... I have to go.

    Gia Carangi: I have to go... I have to go... where the fuck does everybody go when they have to go?

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