My feeling is that after so many years, I am more moved than I was back then.
The online course Deng Shen Project has been in operation for three weeks. In every class, I assign homework to the students and let them go down to watch "My Sassy Girl". But in the next class, when I asked who had watched the movie, only one or two of my classmates had watched it.
Many people are always asking how to change, or why I haven't changed. You haven't done anything, and of course nothing will change. Just watch a small movie, but you don't have time to watch it, you don't have the will to watch it, it's normal that you don't change.
Well, the grumbling of being a teacher is over.
Let's talk movies.
Oddly enough, looking at it now and noticing the details ten years ago is completely different. Ten years ago, I only remembered that the heroine Jun Zhixian was very savage, slapped the hero and forced him to wear high heels. At that time, I liked girls with such strong taste. At that time, I thought Jun Ji Hyun was pretty. So much so that when he went to graduate school, he peeped at a girl who looked like Jun Zhixian in class all day long.
Looking at it now, I find that a girl with a round face like Jun Zhixian is no longer a popular beauty style. The melon face with a pointed jaw is now popular, which is very charming, so actresses with round faces such as Xu Ruoxuan and Yang Mi have to have a pointed face, and girls with a pointed face like Fan Bingbing have a pointed face.
What I thought was a love story ten years ago, now I see gender expectations, healing, true love, and flying saucers.
The male protagonist, Qiangniu (translation of the old version), is a little bit of a sissy boy. Because his parents raised him as a girl and dressed him in little girl clothes, he didn't know he was a boy until he was 7 years old. Therefore, the character of the morning bull is very cowardly, which is very similar to me, so when watching a movie, it is easy to substitute myself with the male protagonist.
The heroine (I don't even know her name now) is a domineering girl. Women are strong and men are weak. This pattern is very familiar. Psychologist Wu Zhihong wrote an article to discuss this typical love and family pattern.
The main line of the story is that the heroine's boyfriend died, and the heroine fell into the memory and sadness of her boyfriend. When he encounters Morning Bull, he is determined to heal the sad girl.
One thing I didn't pay attention to when watching a movie before, although Morning Bull is very cowardly, it has a unique skill, that is to strike up a conversation. After drinking a glass of wine in the small restaurant, he put down the glass and rushed out to catch up with a beautiful woman: "Hey, do you have time?" I don't know why I didn't notice this detail before.
The girl he was going to chat with at first was actually the heroine. He had already met the heroine later, and the two were dating. Once, he even approached the heroine because he didn't recognize someone. He was so frightened that he ran back and didn't dare to answer the phone. The heroine called him, and he faked the phone number. The system voice said, "The number you dialed is temporarily unavailable..."
At the beginning of the movie, Aunt Morning Glory wanted to introduce him to a girl, but he didn't go; Three years later, after seeing him, he realized that this girl was a savage girlfriend.
This is a story of fate.
Regarding fate, the dialogue at the end of the movie is as follows:
Heroine: If we are destined to meet, will we meet by chance somewhere.
Old man: The so-called fate, it will build a bridge called chance for those who work hard.
I often have the idea of a heroine too. When I was in the car, I saw a girl I liked. I'd love to meet her, but I'm hesitant. At this time, I often say to myself: if we really have a fate, let her get off at the same stop as me, if she gets off at the same station as me, I will chat with her; if she is not at the same stop as me Get off the car, it means that we have no fate, so let's go with it.
Later, I learned that countless otakus have this kind of careful thinking.
God is very helpless, I have arranged for you to meet her, and you want me to arrange you to sit next door; I have arranged for you to sit next to her, and you want me to arrange for her to take the initiative to talk to you.
There is a story about a priest who believed in God, but a great flood drowned him. After he died and saw God, he complained to God and said, "My God, I believe in you so much. You don't come to save me when I am in trouble?!" God sighed and said, "I once Three times I helped you, but you didn't take the chance. The first time, when the flood came, I sent a small boat to pass by your house, and the people on the boat waved to you to get on board. You said: God will come to save me Yes, let's go! They're gone. The second time, the flood has flooded your house, and you climbed to the roof. I sent a speedboat past your house, and the people on the boat pulled you on board. You said: God will come to save me, don't worry about me. Last chance, you are about to drown, I send a helicopter to pass over your head, and the helicopter hangs the ropes for you to go up. You say: God will come to save me. I have sent different people to rescue you three times, and you are unwilling to seize the opportunity, how can you blame me for not caring about you?"
God loves us very much, but we also need to love ourselves. God has given us many opportunities, and we need to act on our own.
The heroine is a pure man. She is indecisive when she goes to the coffee shop and she doesn't know what to order. The heroine has already ordered coffee for him, and she has to add the mantra: "You want to die!" Another mantra of the heroine is: "" I'm going to kill you!"
At the restaurant, Qiangniu ordered a pickle pot, and the heroine said, "You order snail meat!"
Of course, later, you will understand that these are the habits of the heroine's ex-boyfriend. In addition to this, I sent roses to class on the 100-day anniversary of my acquaintance, changed my shoes when my feet hurt when I wore high heels, and so on.
The male protagonist summed up 10 laws.
People often ask me how to chase a certain girl.
I think, if there is an answer, it should be to know more about her. You don't know her, how do you know what gifts she likes, what songs she likes to listen to, what colors she likes, and where she likes to go. You don't know anything, you don't know her at all, how can you go after her?
The heroine also has a chivalrous demeanor. Teach young people to give up their seats to the old man on the subway, and of course later she vomited the mixture of wine and noodles on the old man's head; in the restaurant, he taught the young girls and uncles who were helping friends; in the park, he taught the middle-aged people who littered things; and in the subway , teach the scribble kids a lesson.
I also appreciate this.
When changing shoes, the heroine said, "You don't know women!"
Wearing women's shoes is indeed the most effective way to understand women.
The heroine said: "I don't wear underwear on exam days. Today I have an exam. Come and chase me!"
If a girl asks me how to attract men. I think here is the best example. Use porn to seduce a man, and then use time to let him know the real you and fall in love with the real you.
In tennis and kendo competition, the male protagonist can't beat the female protagonist. I remembered what a buddy in the university dormitory said about "Xianjian": "As soon as Zhao Linger came out, he was higher than Li Xiaoyao, and he had more spells than Li Xiaoyao; when Lin Yueru came out, he was also higher than Li Xiaoyao. You are more powerful than men, and being a man is too unconfident."
Qianniu summed up the 10 rules: "When she hits you, pretend it hurts when it doesn't hurt, and pretend it doesn't hurt when it hurts, so that she will be happy. ." Very wise. Who says cheating isn't love? !
The frog in the time ball is a prank put in by the morning bull from the future.
how could I know?
Haha, I didn't know until I read the original. I read the original in 2004, "My Sassy Girl" was originally a web novel.
There are scenes of flying saucers in the movie, and flying saucers are the means of transportation for people from the future to travel to the past.
The script written by the heroine, three stories.
The first story, a Devil Terminator, beauty saves the hero.
In the second story, the male protagonist buries the female protagonist to express a possessive love.
In the third story, a martial arts drama, the heroine is a bounty hunter. Who understands this story?
On the heroine's birthday, Morning Bull arranged for her to go to the playground. It was supposed to be a romantic plan.
But——
encounter deserters with guns.
In the past, before I asked a girl, I also liked to make careful plans, from where to eat, to what to play, to what to say, to how to take them to the hotel. Now understand that this is something insecure people like to do. Things are always changing. Secure people like change and embrace surprise.
A few words from the heroine to persuade the deserter: "Do you think you really loved her?"
If the deserter really loves his girlfriend, why would he be angry because his girlfriend cheated on her.
Someone asked me what is true love?
True love is fulfilling and satisfying each other. If I love you, I want you to be happier. If you are happier with someone else, I will help you to be with him. This is true love.
Most people's love stays at the level of need, I need you, I can't live without you, so you want to be with me, so I want to be with you.
It's not true love, it's need. Needs are neither mean nor noble.
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