This film is by no means a celebration of lovers getting married, nor is it encouraging a third party to destroy other people's marriages. If you chew carefully, you will find that this film is heavy, life is full of regrets, and the film shows Julie How does Ya recover the regret, but what it tells us is, don't leave any regrets, otherwise, the times have changed, and no matter how hard you try, it is impossible to recover the lost feelings, especially when you find that you still love each other, this kind of regret brings The pain will be doubled. When the two broke up, just like many student couples who have been separated from each other after graduation, they are separated from each other. For their own dreams and careers, there may also be some people who love each other but have to separate. If you don't get married, just get married - similar vows are sad but romantic, and that is the most touching love story in the world.
Love is too easy, forgetting is too long. All kinds of ambiguity or sweetness when we are together may be forgotten as time goes by. But it is precisely the sadness and longing after the separation that makes people linger and can't forget it. Even if they haven't seen each other for nine years, that feeling has not disappeared. When I heard that my best friend was going to get married, and "the bride is not me", the shock and loss at that time may be the imprint of the heroine's life that cannot be erased. People are always like this, you only know how to cherish them when you lose them. When you break up, you can't say that you have lost them completely. Although you are separated from each other, even though you are not together, even though you know that your relationship will be weathered by time, she still stubbornly and confidently believes that the person she loves. Still can't forget her. Indeed, it is impossible to forget, but forgetting does not mean that he will wait for you to find him. Men are always more rational than women, and it is easier to choose between reason and emotion to be more beneficial to themselves. It's not that the male protagonist doesn't love his fiancee, but we don't know how much purpose is mixed with that kind of love. From a rational point of view, the fiancee is a more suitable partner for him than the heroine. This marriage will give him the happiness he wants, so when the fiancee sees their kiss, he still chases out.
He's chasing her .Who's chasing you? Nobody. This reality is the cruelest and truest for girls. Today's so-called "leftover girls" have more or less experienced such a reality, and they have been alone. It is not that you are bad or that you are not good enough, but that you have made a choice back then. There is no turning back when you open the bow. Don't expect your former lover to wait for you to come back after a few years. This may be the biggest inspiration for this film to the audience, and even a warning, although it is in the form of comedy. In short, cherish the people in front of you, it is not impossible to have both fish and bear's paw, but sometimes you have to make a little sacrifice, so as not to leave a lifetime of regrets.
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